I am a warm, passionate, sexy female, slender/average (with curves in the right places!), nice looking, professional, have been fantasizing about my submissive side, and some dominance and humiliation, for so long by myself. I am adventurous, open minded and am very comfortable with my sexuality. I am looking for a male (or female) counterpart to have fun with while exploring my and your erotic fantasies and sexuality, with someone who would also like to take on a somewhat dominant role (at least sometimes), someone who is very sensual, verbal, with a creative imagination, very gentle, tender, sensitive to my needs, patient and caring, creative and respectful - no name calling, no hostility, no 24/7, no 'training', just someone to share what we have in common with and create a place where we have the privacy to surrender and tell each other our fantasies. I would like to be able to explore and satisfy my and your desires within a friendship based on trust, giving and mutual respect. Someone who enjoys giving me pleasure and viewing my pleasure and I will seek to pleasure too. I hope to find someone I can at first talk to about this, and if it is right and all works well, it will grow and we can take it to the next step and maybe meet and create something ongoing.
"Her submission is not taken, Her submission is earned."
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My Ideal Person:
Seeking someone who like to use their brains as much as their other body parts for a rewarding relationship.
An adventure into pleasure. I'm not into BDSM as a lifestyle but only as a way to enhance the sexual experience for both people involved. I would like to enjoy the natural flow of a dominant/submissive interaction where pleasure is experienced by both. I would like to explore my fantasies with a someone who can also take on a dominant role (at least sometimes), very verbal, communicative and very gentle, tender, patient and caring, thoughtful, creative and respectful - soft commands and requests, no orders, no name calling, no hostility. It is less what you do to my body, and more what you do to my mind. For me, this is as much about communication as it is about the physical. I am not looking for someone do anything 'to' me, I am searching for someone to have fun 'with', someone who can give pleasure and receive pleasure. A combination of someone who can read me and know what I want to happen next, and us both influencing the flow of the fantasy based on what we both want at the moment. I would love to watch you pee. I like watching the normal and natural way a man (or woman) pees. Maybe bringing you a container to urinate into, or even on me, sometimes - and have you enjoy watching me pee. I fantasize about telling you I have to pee and then you or both of us deciding how and where, which position, indoors or outdoors. Helping you pee, attending to your urination needs. You would sometimes gently train me anally with butt plugs and dildos. I fantasize about you spanking me, OTK and other positions, and having to stand in the corner - sensual, moderate, sound, gentle, empathetic discipline. I would stand in front of you while you enjoy gazing at me. Or crawl on all fours, maybe with a collar and leash. Being asked to perform some (lightly) humiliating acts, servicing you. I'd like to try some playful role playing. I enjoy oral sex, masturbation, anal pleasure/sex, lots of sensual foreplay and I hope you do too. Perhaps also watching people and being watched. I'd like you to bring ideas too. All must be safe, sane, consensual, discreet, drug and disease free, and limits must be respected.
Some information about Domestic Discipline: freethoughtblogs.com/pharyngula/files/2013/06/CDD.pdf
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