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Information:
Gender:   Man
Birthdate:   August 14, 1967
(56 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Jacksonville, Florida, United States
Relocate?:   No
Height:   6 ft 2 in / 187-190 cm
Body Type:   A little extra padding
Smoking:   I'm a non-smoker
Drinking:   I don't drink at all
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   Some college
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Straight
Speaks:   English
Hair Color:   Brown
Hair Length :   Short
Eye Color :   Blue
Glasses or Contacts :   Glasses


LifeStyle
I think about ALT lifestyle:   Once a day
Role:   Dominant
Level of Experience:   I am new at this
Dress:   Casual
Social Orientation :   Hardcore Conservative
Safe Sex:   Sometimes
Demeanor:   Assertive

Personal
Male Endowment: Average/
Average
Circumcised: Yes
Have Children: No
Want Children : No
Occupation: management
Religion: Catholic

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56 year old Man in Jacksonville, Florida, United States Looking For: Women or Couples (2 women)

Profile for tomatejax
I'm far from submissive and way to easy going to be called dominant but have all the traits and preferences. I am single but enjoy being in a relationship. Lately I have discovered I find submission in a woman very hot. collar and leash, kneeling, reverency, I live a fairly simple life. I don't really get out much, I like it that way, if I do I prefer one on one. I have seen and done a lot in this life and have decided that I like it simple. I read a lot, I online game, I have a few regular tv shows. I make a decent living, I am far from decedent or sophisticated, but still fairly intelligent. Someone to share this simple existence, to fill in the empty spots, to smooth the rough edges and to make it more pleasant is all I seek. == Results from bdsmtest.org == 97% Dominant 93% Daddy/Mommy 90% Owner 89% Master/Mistress 82% Rigger 81% Primal (Hunter) 74% Brat tamer 67% Degrader 63% Ageplayer 62% Voyeur 54% Sadist 53% Vanilla 14% Experimentalist 10% Exhibitionist 8% Non-monogamist 5% Girl/Boy 2% Brat 2% Masochist 2% Pet 2% Primal (Prey) 2% Submissive 1% Degradee 1% Rope bunny 1% Slave 1% Switch [if254 1]

My Ideal Person:
I am unsure, I want to discover my likes and dislikes, and I want to see what I am capable of...within my own comfort zone. I do know what I am looking for, a live in submissive that will know how to keep me happy. Someone that understands how I think and anticipates my needs (they are few). So I turn this into a competition of sorts, if I write you, you have interested me, share with me your kinks, your limits, your needs...the best match gets a to share a home with me!

I have discovered how communication here works best for me. I want to get to know you a bit before I give out emails, cell numbers. the women that want to keep my attention will understand I want to learn more about their likes and dislikes, what they are looking for...the more information I get, the better chance you will keep my attention...the more I get to see works the same!


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