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Member Since: June 16, 2021

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Information:
Gender:   Man
Birthdate:   December 28, 1974
(49 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Lutz, Florida, United States
Relocate?:   No
Height:   6 ft 2 in / 187-190 cm
Body Type:   Slim/Petite
Smoking:   I'm a non-smoker
Drinking:   I don't drink at all
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   Some college
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Straight
Speaks:   English
Hair Color:   Salt and Pepper
Hair Length :   Short
Eye Color :   Brown
Glasses or Contacts :   None


LifeStyle
I think about ALT lifestyle:   All the time
Role:   Dominant
Level of Experience:   I am new at this
Dress:   Casual
Social Orientation :   Moderate
Safe Sex:   Sometimes
Demeanor:   Average

Personal
Male Endowment: Long/
Average
Circumcised: Yes
Have Children: No
Want Children : No
Occupation: Software Developer
Religion: Atheist

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49 year old Man in Lutz, Florida, United States Looking For: Women or Couples (2 women)

Profile for starthoughts
[B]I chat on this site before moving on to other forms (Hangouts, e-mail). If you quickly try to move me to another I'll likely ignore you for not reading my profile.[/B] I am a software developer at a major company and have been employed by them for over 20 years. I am financially stable and do well in my opinion. I have never been a Master, but I have had desires for years that, after doing research, ended up being Master/slave fantasies. I would like to make those a reality. I have no real experience, so a potential slave would have to understand that I will not be perfect, but I will do my best to train her and make her feel like she is wanted as a slave. I am looking for a woman who actually wants a real relationship with me, but we live together as Master/slave. I want someone who is intelligent (doesn't have to have college degree or anything). I do have certain physical qualities I am looking for, but I am more interested in her personality. Even though she's my slave, I still want to be able to cuddle, and feel her actual affection for me, and not just her submissiveness to me. I like to listen to music most of the time, generally 70's, 80's music. Things like the Eagles, Run DMC, Enya, Megadeth, Metallica, Boston, Bill Withers, Yuki Kajiura, Don McLean, and others. I also like watching some TV shows, but not many. I usually pick 1 or 2 that are playing and watch those as new episodes come out. I enjoy the MCU movies, which is mostly what I watch nowadays. Though I regularly catch up on some of the all-time greats, such as the Princess Bride, Big Trouble in Little China and The Last Dragon. As for travelling, while I don't care for it much, I did take a cruise once. I'd love to take more cruises, and take that special someone with me on it. I enjoy the occasional trip, but I don't like flying so I usually limit it to wherever I can drive within 12 hours. If you see me before I see you, feel free to message me. I have standard contacts so anyone should be able to message me without a gold account. You can also contact me as star-thoughts on Fetlife, or starthoughts on Fetster. [if254 1]

My Ideal Person:
I am looking for a woman who actually wants a real relationship with me, but we live together as Master/slave. I want someone who is intelligent (doesn't have to have college degree or anything). I do have certain physical qualities I am looking for, but I am more interested in her personality.

Even though she's my slave, I still want to be able to cuddle, and feel her actual affection for me, and not just her submissiveness to me.

But also, I would take care of her, almost like a father figure (but I'm not into the DDlg idea), more of a caretaker. Preferably with someone who just doesn't want to have to make decisions. Perhaps she has a stressful job that requires her to make decisions that effect others (like a surgeon, police officer, or something of the like), or because she knows she has a history of making decisions that were detrimental to herself and would just like an older man who could make sure she's well taken care of.
Someone who relies on me to give them a good, stress-free life by surrendering themselves to me.

I'm also looking for local girls (within about a 90 minute drive) who would be interested in doing regular erotic hypnosis sessions.


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