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I was on this site many years ago and "met" many fine people. After 10 years I return now, a little older, and a little wiser.
D/s is, for me, not a life style, but rather one of the "Four F" cornerstones of life - family, friends, fun, and financial stability.
In an "ideal world" we'd all find another "kinky" person who matched us 100%, and we'd all live happily ever after. Unfortunately, the world is not ideal, and only some are fortunate enough to find exactly what that need/want.
I return seeking a submissive female friend.
About Me: Yes, I'm attached, yes, she's probably my best friend, and yes, we are financially dependent on each other (since "two together" can live cheaper and better than "two apart") and no, she is not interested in "kink". She has her "boy" (a guy 15 years younger) who she sees regularly, and if that makes her happy, I'm delighted for her
I'm safe, sane and probably too responsible (I don't do things I don't understand or don't know about). I'm very big on obedience and bondage (details in checked boxes).
I'll share part of an e-mail I received from a woman about 5 years ago - I think it will tell you much about me, and how I'm perceived.
[COLOR chocolate]Hello again,
I just wanted to share my thoughts with you.
I didn't have the time to deal with the 67 messages I had because I like to write "I'm not interested, thank you and good luck". I don't like to leave people hanging, so it's been on my mind, just no time to address that.
Anyhow, today when I went in there was a man who left me an IM message that read something to the effect that if I were looking for someone to turn my mind off and keep it there, then he was the guy for me. My answer flowed quite easily as I typed "Actually, I'm not looking for someone to turn my mind off, on the contrary; my DOM must have the ability to keep my mind on, turn my brain off, work my body to exhaustion and Dominantly seduce me to absolute submission" and I hit enter. [B]All that is what I think of you and what you do to me.
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I shared that with you because I want you to know that although we haven't been playing for too long, I wanted you to see how much I've already grown and you have helped to shape that growth just by being you. I do know some more details about the semantics that take place in a playroom and about some of the objects used, but that's just the surface, however what has already been defined clearly in my mind is exactly what I want! For that I thank you and hopefully the guy has something to munch on.
I'm not so green any more, ha Terry?
I hope this makes you be proud of your Self and feel proud of me. I am both!
I'll talk to you later...
Endearingly your subbie,
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Let the search begin, and good luck to all!
[B][/B][I][/I]"A mind shaped by experience can never go back to its original dimensions"
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Min Ideal Person:
Ideally, she'd be over 40, attached (happily or unhappily), and/or unable or unwilling to leave that relationship for any number of reasons. She'll be aware of her desires to be submissive, and mature enough to overlook any age difference and focus on "HOW I can make her feel", rather than how my image affects her retina. Being within 50 miles of Toronto is preferable, and she'll be willing to negotiate honestly and openly what she wants/needs, and what she's prepared to give to have these needs met.
Size, shape and appearance are not important (Hell, I'm not Brad Pitt, nor Robert Redford). As I said in my profile the first time around, "A submissive heart is more important than a fashion model face."
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