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mr_nyc  
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Member Since: March 30, 2006

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This Couple's Information:
Gender:   Couple (man/woman)
Lives in:   Freeport, New York, United States
Relocate?:   No
Swinger Type:   Sex with your partners only
Have Children:   Yes. We live together.
Want Children:   Happy with what we have
Drugs:   I use some recreational drugs
Speaks:   English, French
Activities Enjoyed:   {"67":"Voyeurism|2|6","33":"Exhibitionism/Sex In Public|2|6","63":"Toys|2|6","70":"Podophilia (Foot Fetish)|2|6","7":"Asphyxiaphilia (Breath Play)|2|1","68":"Whips|2|6","80":"Biting|2|6","17":"Chastity Devices|1|5","2":"Age Play|1|6","18":"Chains|1|6","72":"Humiliation|2|6","30":"Dildos (Handheld & Strap-ons)|2|6","16":"Candle Wax|2|1","44":"Masks|2|6","82":"Massage|2|1","84":"Oral Sex|3|6","74":"Making Home \"Movies\"|2|6","27":"Depilation/Shaving|2|1","25":"Dacryphilia (Arousal from Tears)|2|1","57":"Role Playing|2|6","75":"Pantyhose/Stockings|2|5","83":"Mutual Masturbation|3|6","40":"Klismaphilia (Douching/Enema)|2|6","61":"Master/Slave|3|6","14":"Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc.|3|6","20":"Cling Film|1|6","59":"Sadism|2|6","49":"Spanking/Paddling|2|6","89":"Bukkake|2|1","31":"Domination|3|6","53":"The Rack/Medieval Devices|1|5","87":"Tickling|2|1","77":"Pinching|2|1","13":"Branding|1|1","23":"Collar and Lead/Leash|2|5","65":"Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine)|1|6","29":"Sadism/Masochism|2|6","6":"Ass Play|2|6","85":"Anal Sex|3|1","39":"Hair Pulling|2|6","36":"Fisting|2|1","9":"Blindfolds|2|6","12":"Bondage|3|6","41":"Lace/Lingerie|2|5","15":"Confinement/Caging|2|5","52":"Power Exchange|2|6","8":"Masturbation|3|6","81":"Defilement, Seeing a Partner Dirty or Wet|2|1","38":"Handcuffs/Shackles|2|6","4":"Pain|2|1","56":"Rimming|2|6","66":"Vibrators|2|6","45":"Masochism|2|6","37":"Gangbangs|2|6","73":"Lactation|2|1","86":"Talking Dirty|3|6","76":"Participating in Erotic Photography|2|6","43":"Leather|2|6","19":"Chinese Balls/Ben Wa Balls/Anal Beads|2|5","5":"High Heels|2|5"}

His Information:
Birthdate: January 27, 1977
(47 years old)
Height: 6 ft 4 in / 193-195 cm
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Race: Black

LifeStyle
I think about ALT lifestyle:   All the time
Level of Experience:   Whole adult life
Dress:   Casual
Social Orientation:   Moderate
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Assertive

Personal
Body Hair:   Little
Body Decorations:   Tattoo(s)
Marital Status:   Married
Occupation:   Programmer
Religion:   Catholic
Education:   BA/BS (4 years college)

Her Information:
Birthdate: March 20, 1977
(47 years old)
Height: 5 ft 4 in
Body Type: A little extra padding
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Race: Black
Sexual Orientation: Bi-sexual

LifeStyle
I think about ALT lifestyle:   Once a week
Role:   Switch
Level of Experience:   More than five years
Dress:   Prefer not to say
Social Orientation:   Moderate
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Average

Personal
Hair Color:   Brown
Hair Length:   Medium
Eye Color:   Brown
Glasses or Contacts:   Either
Body Decorations:   Earring(s); Body Piercings; Tattoo(s)
Breast Size:   38 / 85 C
Marital Status:   Married
Religion:   Catholic
Education:   BA/BS (4 years college)

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47/47 year old Couple (man/woman) in Freeport, New York, United States Looking For: Men, Women, Couples (man/woman) or Couples (2 women)

Profile for mr_nyc
My wife and I have been together for over 25 years. We love each other and are as close to what most people think of as soul mates. Even better we enjoy bdsm and the life. She is my sub and I her dominant. We used to hunt together, find single submissive females to train and share. As we grew older we wanted to settle down with just one. For a while we thought we found that special unicorn and almost had that poly life we dreamed of, then covid came and messed everything up. Post covid she is no longer interested in the hunt or the bullshit that goes along with it. Tired of the scammers, tired of investing time getting to know someone only to have it turn to nothing or a worthless one night stand. She turns to her man and says: You find someone. Find someone who will fulfill all your kink needs and I your faithful sub will be here when you need her to fill whatever role you ask. So here I am, 45 dominant black married male who is looking for a new submissive to teach, train, and form a strictly BDSM and friendship relationship. My wife will only join if training is successful and I chose to invite her. I like to get to know a submissive before meeting. To spark my interest you need to be prepared to engage in some form of discourse. I need to know that I can have a conversation with you on some intellectual plane. We can talk about damn near anything, but stupid makes my dick soft. I want to make sure I set expectations because I don't want anyone to misinterpret my words, I love my wife. I [B]do not[/B] want to: love you, know your emotional issues. or form any relationship with you beyond a sexual friendship relationship[B] to start[/B]. If something develops from there that is fine. I care about your mindset and you willingness to explore sexuality. I can careless about how hot you think you are. But I will ask to exchange pics ... a real one before we begin any serious conversation that leads to a meet. In this day and age of google lens stop sending me pics of old pornstars I know its not you I'm not stupid and you're not that smart. [if254 1]

My Ideal Person:
Outside the bedroom: Intelligent, self-aware, assertive, confidant, likes cartoons, can laugh at a joke
Inside the bedroom: A submissive bi-female who has no problem fully submitting. A sub who will join in on our sexual adventures.

Couples (m&w): Not anymore unless you are extremely cool people

Single Men don't bother contacting me anymore.

I know its difficult for standard members to contact us so email, IM, wink, or hot-list, and I will reach out to you via email.
Voice verification to follow.

Let's be respectful of each others time and not waste it playing games.

Evergeen list, if you can check anyone of the following do not contact me:
You are a Scammer in general
You are not interested in black men
You are Single Male looking for a couple
You are Single Male looking for anything other than online conversation about the life
You believe the profile pic is my wife and not what I do to my subs
You are someone who's profile location no longer matches their living location
You are someone who needs a cashapp advance to meet
You are someone who doesn't like kink
You are someone who likes to argue points we already agree on
You are someone that would rather misinterpret than ask for clarification


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