My Ideal Person:
A bit old-school, first and foremost I seek a competent woman. This means I have no interest in a little (who I see as silly rather than cute), someone who needs 'bailed out' because of poor decision making, or a brat (which I see as disrespectful).

At this point in my life, I value inner peace. This means I'm not looking for drama or a power struggle. Talk with me and spend time with me. Make a decision based on that you see. You are looking for someone who leads more by example than by compulsion.

I'm looking for a woman who, no matter your role in the vanilla world, seeks, even yearns, to relinquish authority for most decision making to a caring, sensual, non-sadistic (most of the time) Dominant. This isn’t an occasional ‘role’ you want to play because it’s thrilling, but an integral part of your personality.

In fact, it may be such a pervasive part of who you are that you may have been taken advantage of as a result of trying too hard to please others in your past personal life. These people simply continued to take until you reached the point of exhaustion rather than understanding you need to be protected from overextending yourself.

Although we both want to share authority and responsibilities unequally, so to do we recognize each of us has an equal importance in a relationship.

Our most important assets are our personal integrity and outlook on life. If you look forward to being challenged to be just as beautiful, healthy, & vibrant as you can be, it is my hope my vision of a relationship moves you enough to send me an email.

P. S. If you send me a friend request but we have never emailed I will probably not accept it. Please don't be offended. I live my life according to principals that make sense to me and this is simply one of them. Sorry, to those of you who don't understand.

Also, I am looking for a mature woman not a newly formed snowflake. If your age does not start with at least a "5", please don't waste each other's time.