i pride myself on my desire to constantly evolve and change...i am in the process of a major change and really have no idea what i am going to look like when i come out the other side...i share this in an effort to give you a head's up that i am not very stable at the moment, not that i am psychotic, but that i am not quite sure what i want and i am exploring many experiences and many dynamics...and i am a Gemini, so there is that as well. You have been warned, enter at your own risk.
i am looking for someone with which to play with on a regular basis (weekly at the very least) and with whom i can develop a mutually respectful, committed (in its own way) and caring relationship. i am hoping to find a partner who will help me stretch as a submissive, who is strong enough to break me and caring enough to put me back together, better than ever, only to be broken and rebuilt again and again.
I am newly separated from my husband and have moved out. The split was a long time in coming and was my choice. So far, it has remained amicable, fingers crossed it can continue that way but who knows.
i am only looking for IRL play, no cyber.
i am a curvy girl with tits made for bondage and an ass made for spanking. i like to push myself, and to be pushed, to explore my limits. Finding a Dom who is able to recognize when that limit is approaching and when i am about to safe-word, then backing off Himself, would be a wondrous thing. i appreciate humor during play and a Dom who values a bit of sauciness at times. He must also understand the strength that it takes to be a submissive and respect that. No bullies. Intelligence is critical, confidence, not arrogance, is also key. You might think that confidence and Dominance go hand in hand but, i assure you, that is not always the case and often dominant behavior is used as a crutch to compensate.
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