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Dominant male seeking submissive female. I have enjoyed over 20 years in the BDSM D/s lifestyle and am currently seeking a partner to continue exploration with.
My likes/desires are varied and broad in scope. I enjoy a wide range of BDSM activities and wish to explore and revisit these with one who has the desire and need to submit and serve. Ideally finding a woman who would like to share a long-term relationship with me is my objective, but am open to a number of scenarios depending on the submissives situation. Many factors will play into the exact dynamics of that partnership but its basis would be Dominance/submission. The submissive should understand and accept that my interests and desires would be the focal point of our union, but I have found over the years that the submissives needs also get woven into the fabric of the relationship. It is a intricate dance between the Master being in control, the submissive giving up that control so that both so that both can perform the actions necessary to receive fulfillment. Building the relationship so that interplay can come to fruition is what draws me to this Lifestyle and is why I am here seeking her.
I am strict but reasonable. By this I mean, I will not expect things from you that I have not prepared you or trained you for. I am safe and sane. The last thing I would ever want to do is to injure you physically, mentally, emotionally, or spiritually. Though our interaction will involve some level of pain depending on your limits, I see one of my key roles is to protect you from harm. There is a big difference between pain; and harm or injury.
Taking the submissive someplace against her will is not acceptable and a crime, and something I would never do. In addition, I also believe it is unacceptable to take a submissive someplace that she is not prepared for. This is one of the reasons why it is so important to spend the time getting to know the submissives mind and body in depth. Understanding her needs, desires, fears, expectations and limits is crucial. It is important to invest the time upfront to make sure we are a good match. I will control the D/s side of the relationship but not without taking into account the needs of the submissive. At the end of the day both of us have to be vested in, and fulfilled by, the relationship. I will lead you, as the submissive, to engage in activities within both your limits and capabilities to please me, and in by doing so, will allow you to find your pleasure as you give me mine.
Trust is really the glue that holds the whole thing together. We both need to work hard to earn it from the other, this is a principal that I am wholly committed to from day one. The relationship will only work if we can build a high level of trust between each other. This takes time but time well worth spending. Without rock solid trust you will not be able to let go and serve Me properly. Trust is a necessity.
I will allow you soft and hard limits. A safe and a slow word. I will always respect and never push you on a hard limit even if it is something, I find pleasurable. (Obviously, if lots of things I'm into are hard limits for you then we aren't a good match and vice versa) I have hard limits of my own. Your soft limits I may push you on from time to time, that's one of the reasons you have the safe and slow words. In the past I haven't found limits to be much of a problem. I'm pretty good at judging if the submissive will be able to please me, and have been lucky that the submissives who chose me were open about their desires, expectations and limits.
If you feel some connection with what I have written, have questions, would like to get to know me better, or just want to talk about the lifestyle in general, contact me here at alt or directly at ALT.com, I'd like to hear from you.
Thanks for taking the time to read over my profile. This is a very brief overview of my thoughts, desires, expectations and experiences. Should you get to know me better you will find out just how brief.
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Mijn Ideale Persoon:
What I seek.
Seeking a submissive female who is interested in exploring the BDSM D/s lifestyle with me. She should be compliant within the framework of the D/s side of our relationship but not a doormat. I would expect and welcome her input into what excites and motivates her mentally, emotionally and physically, as she submits, with the understanding that I’m in control of the activities we engage in. I am not looking for someone to top from the bottom, but rather a partner who can honestly share her core feelings. Understanding that through submitting to my desires she can fulfil her own. Trusting that I will take the time to learn her, teach her, and then take her down a path both of us will enjoy and thrive upon. Your desire to submit and learn is more important than the number of years' experience you may possess.
I am looking for a submissive who is driven to build a relationship based on trust not fear, one who is motivated by arousal rather than punishment.
She will be open to safely exploring the things that stimulate, drive and excite me. At her core needing to be controlled and used in a safe sane and stable environment.
Is she you?
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