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Simon_said  
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Member Since: July 17, 2021

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Information:
Gender:   Man
Birthdate:   June 26, 1974
(49 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Ajax, Ontario, Canada
Relocate?:   Yes
Height:   170-172 cm
Body Type:   Slim/Petite
Smoking:   I'm a non-smoker
Drinking:   I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   BA/BS (4 years college)
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Straight
Speaks:   English, F***it!
Hair Color:   Brown
Hair Length :   Short
Eye Color :   Hazel
Glasses or Contacts :   Glasses


LifeStyle
I think about ALT lifestyle:   All the time
Role:   Submissive
Level of Experience:   I am new at this
Dress:   Preppie
Social Orientation :   Moderate
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Average

Personal
Male Endowment: Average/
Average
Circumcised: No
Have Children: No
Want Children : Maybe
Occupation: Writer
Religion: Spiritual

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49 year old Man in Ajax, Ontario, Canada Looking For: Women

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Oh, hello! How are you today? Look, I'm terribly sorry if you thought I was D because unfortunately I'm not. In fact, there's not a dominant bone in my body. But thanks very much for dropping by in any case, and I wish you all the best of luck on your journey! Also, if you happen to be a Nigerian scammer, a rapacious cyber-Domme from France, or even just a good-old-fashioned gold-digger (just trying to make her living in a rapidly changing world full of foreign cyber-Dommes and scammers), then, well, I've got bad news for you guys too. See, I never really jumped on board that whole [I]coin collecting[/I] fad that's been so popular of late. I'm sorry, ladies but you won't find any treasure buried around these parts, I can assure you of it! Worse, when it comes to spending money then I'm a world champion at the sport, so you may even come away from the affair encumbered by MORE debt! So, if you wan... Hello? Hello? Ok, well I think that just about takes care of everyone... Or... Hold up, is someone still here?! A mysterious, and apparently quite fearless, lady over there in the shadows... Oh, it's [B]You![/B] Well, what a surprise! Please, come in, come in! I do apologise! How rude of me! No, no it's no problem at all. Really! Oh please, pleasing you is always my pleasure, there's really nothing I find more pleasurable! Why don't you just make yourself at home, no, really, sit down, let me take your coat for you! Could I interest you in a drink? Coffee? Iced-tea? Triple-shot of Bailies, neat? Piece of chocolate cake? You look a little tired, could I interest you in a foot massage? A little oral relaxation? A LOT of oral relaxation? Ummm, ok, but I do feel rather awkward now, and seeing as I'm standing here naked already... Perhaps I could be of use to you as a footstool? A human fan? Oh, really? Well that's great! Smashing! (A long silence follows, broken only be the sound of air rushing over the plume of peacock feathers being reverently used as a fan... And the steady drip as beads of sweat run down my spine and into my bottom before finally succumbing to gravity and falling to the floor. And as I grow steadily more weary, and the dark spots of stars begin to swim before my eyes, still the lady does not utter a single sound, nor glance my way. [B]Sigh. She's just incredible, isn't she? Incredible and absolutely perfect! Sigh, my Mistress! She's found me at last![/B] [COLOR SILVER]Intelligent, caring, honest, funny, open, kind, loyal, curious, playful. intuitive, artistic, optimistic, hopeless romantic seeking long-term, FLR, that's based on some form of love and mutual respect, (ideally, but I [I]am[/I] a guy, so you know, I'm always open to other offers!) - please don't get me wrong, I'm more than happy for You to drive this thing. Hell, You can even keep me in the glove compartment with the service books if You want to! I guess what I'm saying is that if You say "Jump" then You won't be hearing me ask something silly like "How high, Mistress?", because I'll already be jumping as high as possible - as though my the bottom was about to be nine-tailed! Again! So, You will lead, and I will follow, always. I won't argue with You - I promise! I want to make Your life easier...more enjoyable, not more difficult! That desire is just naturally built into me. [I]I need to make Your life easier![/I] I need to love You, need to give You everything that I am, everything that I have, everything that I've learned, everything that I've ever experienced. To focus all of my attention on attending to Your needs. Only You. Only ever You. All that I would ask, in return for gifting You a lifetime of devotion, would be for You to acknowledge that it takes strength to submit, however one defines that statement - not so much the strength to endure under the ownership of another, or even the strength to always follow that owner's wishes, but rather the strength possessed by the submissive can be seen in just one overarching quality... In having TRUST. We learn quite early on in life, and quite painfully, that people often let us down, and that ultimately there is nobody else on planet Earth that we can have complete faith in but ourselves. Not our role models, not our best friends, not even our families can be relied upon with 100% conviction - to ALWAYS do the right thing by us. It's probably life's most painful lesson, that one - at the end of the day there is only us. No one else can be fully counted on, we are alone in the world. We can only trust ourselves. To me, this is the entire point of the D/s scene, whoever, and whatever you are, everything revolves around the knifes-edge of 'TRUST'. Whether it's being borrowed or lent, being stolen or donated, whether someone is assuming it, building it, violating it or accepting it, whether it is being used as bait, or people are playing 'keepings-off' with it, they're all ultimately just different facets of a single game. Within whatever kink, as a D, as an s, everywhere, anywhere, anytime, it's all a game of trust. On the peripheries of the scene - where some trust is given, and some trust is taken - then quibbling over exact quantities is largely an issue of trivia. But the closer one gets to the central D/s thesis the larger the stakes become. And as the potential payouts scale-up, so too the more exacting are trust's tolls. It simply follows then, that anyone giving themselves over to the possession of another, is playing with stakes of the highest order. A submissives strength doesn't lie in the act of their submission - although great strength is also required to fulfill that role - but rather in the leap of diminishing themselvesany person prepared entrust themselves to another, is to another last reliable grasp of pnice if this should be valued for the a tre gift that it is. Just recognised, it doesn't necessarily ever have to be spoken of - simply kept in mind I don't know why this seems important to me, but it does, I'm sorry! ...that's my only request, a minor point really. And... [SIZE 6] [COLOR RED][I]EVERYTHING ELSE IS YOU! EVERYTHING. ALWAYS AND FOREVER. ONLY YOU...[/I][/COLOR][/SIZE]💋 ...Only YOU to love; only YOU to adore; only YOU to worship, only YOU to support, only YOU to listen to; only YOU to laugh along with; only YOU to serve; only YOU to be a better person for; only YOU to pleasure, only YOU to feel pain for; only YOU to live for; only YOU to be my light on the hill, my one true home; only ever YOU, only ever [Color: Gold]YOU.[/Color] ...forever. [if254 1]

My Ideal Person:
YOU! I thought that was kinda obvious!

NB. Please don't be put off by my location (wherever it says I'm from its probably wrong. Well, unless it says: 'Melbourne, Australia' then it's wrong. And yep, I know Australia, right! I can tell YOU exactly how far this is from your home town - it's just a little bit further than a return trip to Timbuktu! Actually, it's a fair bit further than that - it's a long fvcking way! But, all that said...

There are big planes these days that fly all over the place, distance is a mental barrier, not a physical one. And, despite having lived in Melbourne all my life, I have remarkably few ties here: no kids; no dependents; no mortgage; no wife; no crippling debts - no debts at all, actually; no extended family to worry about (my father died some years ago, and though I love my mum we know we drive each other crazy, and so it's a visit twice a year at best); no outstanding fines; no warrants from the sheriff... I have a few select friends, and a few inconsequential possessions, but that's all that keeps me tethered to this place. Moreover, I've pretty much resigned myself to having to move to be with YOU. It wouldn't happen overnight, there are shots to get and paperwork that would need completing. But it would be a week's, not months, sort of timeframe. I'm ready to move, and pretty much anywhere on the planet, for the right relationship... It's not even a question, I'd do it for YOU. In a heartbeat...

...so, ummm. I guess I'll be seeing YOU soon then?

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