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My name is Phil. You may call me that until a relationship is established between us.
I work second shift from 4: 00 PM till 12:30 AM. If I am online I am just checking messages on my phone I can not IM.
I'm curious. I would like to know why people make the choice they do. tell me why you chose where you are?
The Alternative Lifstyle, BDSM communities are vast. The sub cultures with in it can number in the thousands and everyone's definition of them can be varied. So in most cases no one is right or wrong. Its all in one's interpretation and ones desire's and belief's.
My mantra Fun Fun Fun Patience Patience Patience. I enjoy discussing the Lifestyle. If your new feel free to ask. If you have been in it for a while lets talk about what is next. I love exploring new things.
Why not smile and enjoy. I am a mentally mature, Sane, man. Meaning I am in control of my emotions and in control of how I discipline. I expect a sub or a slave to be mentally mature also.
The bottom line it its MY responsibility as MASTER to manipulate the mind as well as the body of a sub or slave. If they get mundane and bored i stimulate the brain and then make the body respond to their actions. In other words if you get bored I get creative if you resist I will find a way to help you understand it is my wish. If you whine and pout instead of being ready for me i force you to make the preparations if I have to give you a detailed list to perform it will be followed to the letter. I can be very demanding down to paint your finger nails different colors in this order for an example.
First off you have boundaries and limits. Hard limits you never give in to period. Boundaries on the other hand are things that can be expanded and and brought down. Some so called Masters have no patience when a sub balks or refuses its up to ME to find a way to bring them down. When you agree to be a slave you set your hard limits. Anything and I mean ANYTHING is game for the Master so think about that.
A Dom means you have to take care of your sub/slave. You need to provide a safe and secure home. If you require them to work you need to provide a means of them to get there. It is your responsibility to make sure they are healthy. The BDSM lifestyle does not give you a license to destroy a life, it is a license to build a life, to mold a life to meet your needs and satisfy their desire to serve.
Phil
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My Ideal Person:
Ideally my sub/slave should be mentally mature. A female that will be a happy addition to My life. She will have to be open minded and willing to try something new at all times. Be open to learning something new everyday. Cuckold couples are always fun for a date night.
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