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Red_Stapler   Confirm ID
Years of experience in BDSM; new-ish to ethical non-monogamy
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Last Visit: More than 3 months
Member Since: October 9, 2017

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Information:
Gender:   Man
Birthdate:   July 25, 1980
(43 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Morris County, New Jersey, United States
Relocate?:   No
Height:   5 ft 10 in / 177-180 cm
Body Type:   A little extra padding
Smoking:   I'm a non-smoker
Drinking:   I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   BA/BS (4 years college)
Race:   Mixed
Sexual Orientation:   Straight
Speaks:   Chinese (Mandarin), English, Spanish
Hair Color:   Black
Hair Length :   Short
Eye Color :   Brown
Glasses or Contacts :   Either


LifeStyle
I think about ALT lifestyle:   All the time
Role:   Dominant
Level of Experience:   More than five years
Dress:   Other
Social Orientation :   Moderate
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Average

Personal
Male Endowment: Average/
Thick
Circumcised: No
Have Children: No
Want Children : No
Occupation: Accounting/Finance
Religion: Not applicable

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43 year old Man in Morris County, New Jersey, United States Looking For: Women, Couples (man/woman) or Couples (2 women)

Profile for Red_Stapler
A copy of this is in my ALT blog. (Lifted from my FetLife profile): [I]In the middle of the night, you are pulled from your bed by men in uniform. Hooded and gagged, you are thrown into some sort of vehicle and abused on your way to who knows where. You find yourself in a stark room where you are harshly interrogated. After a perfunctory show trial, you are found guilty (as if there was ever any doubt) and your nightmarish sentence will begin immediately.[/I] If that sounds like your idea of a good time ... we should talk!! ------------------------ My handle is a reference to a movie, not a fetish. If you got the reference without cheating, congratulations! You win a piece of flair. Jack of all kinks. INTP. Former board member of New Jersey TNG. I like good beer (no piss water). I dress to impress. I enjoy doing outdoor stuff like hiking, skiing, and cycling. I love bondage! Just started group here on ALT: [group 44087] [if254 1]

My Ideal Person:
A play partner who likes being bound, humiliated, sexually used, and is totally cool with ethical non-monogamy. It would be great if you get along with my wife too (XandraNJ), at least enough to chat over coffee.


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