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Are you the one man who can serve me completely, respond to my every whim with wholehearted diligence and pleasure -- and be held accountable for doing so?
If so, you are more accustomed to leading than following but will nonetheless submit wholly to me. As a Domme, not a top, I have no desire to vie for control.
I do not engage in feminization, bathroom games, male-male play or much beyond (a LOT of) light CBT. I have no wish to harm you,, just hurt you! If you are looking to selfishly get your kink needs met, move on to the next profile. Your fears & desires should dovetail closely with mine. If they do not, please do not waste your time and mine in applying.
Our relationship will include all that goes into sharing life, with D/s an omnipresent titillating undercurrent. We will both appear and be an intensely enmeshed couple who are madly in love. I adore those close to me and when we reach that point, I expect that you will return the adoration while throwing in some cherishing & worship.
My family figures prominently in my life, Your family and friends can be included in our lives to whatever degree you wish. My only rule is that if they are in your life, they are in mine as well. The other requirement in terms of family is (with a nod to titular cinematic wordsmithing): Must Love Dogs.
Expertise in massage and other spa offerings is a particular plus. Overall, your interests, experiences and pursuits need to entertain and amuse, please and delight and generally make for quality repartee. A quick wit is essential. Finally, I expect you to be able to pay your own way in life. While anything beyond that is a plus, it is not a requirement.
Among the adjectives commonly used to describe me are: Optimistic; Charismatic; Open - (Hearted, Minded and Souled); Spiritually-Grounded; Nurturing; Inquisitive; Intense; Creative; Humorous; Directive; Compassionate; Welcoming; Nonjudgmental; Friendly; Wise; Direct; Loyal; Steadfast; Keenly Intelligent -- both emotionally & intellectually; and Refined (and as my just opined upon hearing that list -- though not its context -- apparently Self-Congratulatory ;-) I have no problem laughing at my own foibles along with those in the world at large. In fact, I want us to laugh out loud together every day!
I will leave it to you to determine the most efficient and effective way to carry out most tasks; however, I am a perfectionist and expect whatever directions I do give to be followed in precise detail. I am willing to change my mind, but will first have to be persuaded that your idea has at least as much merit as what I envisioned upon seeing the situation at hand.
You will be able to please and delight me, both because I come to such emotions naturally and because I will give you the knowledge, information and opportunity to do so often. I am quick to own up and take responsibility when I’m wrong, though you will have to do some pretty fast talking to keep such occurrences from earning you infraction points for not having advised me that I was inaccurately assessing a situation.
If anonymous slavery is what you seek, I am not the Domme for you. I will know you completely, inside and out. It has been said that it is impossible to be involved with me and not talk. That holds true regardless of your previous experience with introspection. I am a toucher and a snuggler and I expect to take complete possession of your body. I want and expect you to be completely open and perennially accessible to me emotionally as well as physically.
You will maintain an infraction book and we will reconcile matters every couple of weeks or so. When I tell you to get out the book and tally up the points you’ve amassed, I expect your heart to race, your stomach to lurch and your mouth to go dry as quickly as your clothes are shed. Seeing you quail and knowing that some level of dread is setting in is among my most delicious turn ons. I relish it nearly as much as I relish having my man suffer for me.
I spank in sets. Each set begins with 20 (or 40, depending upon how you count -- 20 on each cheek at any rate) with a one-cheek-at-a-time spanking implement to tenderize things a little, then 10 with a whippy implement across both. I will change up both types of implements several times as new sets begin. I am wont to do some prostate massage and exploration between sets -- perhaps even leaving something inserted through the following set as long as it will not offer any impediment to your taking whatever medicine you have coming.
You will not regularly carry stimulation on to completion -- and then only under my express direction, of course -- but there will be a lot of stimulation! Maintaining control is an ironclad requirement. I am familiar with ways to increase capacity and will always be aware of just where your limits are. You will come to crave my unique caress as you will feel it with each orgasm.
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My Ideal Person:
You are strong and confident and very comfortable in your own skin; you go with the flow in an easy-going manner; you have the capacity for closeness and genuinely desire intense intimacy.
When it comes to D/s you may have dabbled but ideally are not an old pro - I want to train you, not re-train you! ;-D
You are somewhere close to obsession when it comes to 'such' thoughts, but still have some level of embarrassment about them too.
You are genuine, giving and upbeat.
Your lifestyle commitments and requirements are such that you can call a lot of your time your own -- or actually, scratch that and make it 'MY own" ;-D My primary "Love Language" is definitely quality time!
Now hurry up! After all, you are supposed to be the one who waits for me, not vice versa!
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