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What is BDSM Personals anyway?

BDSM Personals is everything you ever wished for in an active online fetish, bdsm, and bondage lifestyle community. We're a devoted bunch of kinksters who are serious about creating safe, sane, consentual playful space for perverts like us to fulfill their fantasies. And we're passionate about being open and inclusive of all genders, roles and relationship styles. Are you queer, single or new to the lifestyle? In a poly relationship and looking for play partners? Are you a bi-curious slave looking for a Master or a Mistress you can serve? Maybe you're trying to find that certain someone who will fully submit to your wants and needs. Or are you just looking to watch and learn, find and explore past your own personal limits in private? BDSM Personals is a vibrant and lively community of open-minded kinksters here to help you get what you need.

Who's on BDSM Personals, hmmm?

BDSM Personals is a hotbed of fun-loving and eager kinksters of all levels of experience. We've got it all, from beginners, novices and full-fledged lifestyle practitioners. Are you a committed 24/7 lifestyler looking to play and scene with someone new? With all of the sexiest, dirtiest and most fun-loving kinky folk online why bother looking anywhere else? Whether you are looking for a master or a slave, a dominant, submissive, full power exchange, play partners, public disgrace or a strictly private affair BDSM Personals is the fetish dating community for you.

So then why choose BDSM Personals?

Because BDSM Personals is different than other kinky communities. BDSM Personals is exclusive. Sure there are plenty of dating sites out there, but few are exclusively devoted to kink & bdsm dating communities. Sites like fetlife.com, bondage.com, collarme.com are all kinky but BDSM Personals is different. We're creating a global network of safe, sane and consensual play partners. Sites like okcupid.com, match.com, zoosk.com and lavalife.com are fine and dandy for vanilla folks but they just can't give us what we want and need. Plus connecting with people is easy on BDSM Personals with tools like keyword search, matchmaking tools, email, chat rooms, 1x1 chat, webcams, member videos, blogs, flirts, bulletins and groups. BDSM Personals members can also view kinky, bondage and fetish tubes and porno, live model chat and live model webcams.

Where do our Pervy BDSM Personals Members live?
All over the world, silly :)

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24/7 (Total Power Exchange)
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Blood
Body Hair
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Branding
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Chains
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Cross Dressing
Cupping (Suction of the Skin)
Dacryphilia (Arousal from Tears)
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Denim
Depilation/Shaving
Dildos (Handheld & Strap-ons)
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Ears
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Feathers
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Humiliation
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Masks
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Oral Sex (Receiving)
Pain
Pantyhose/Stockings
Participating in Erotic Photography
Piercings
Pinching
Play Piercing
Podophilia (Foot Fetish)
Power Exchange
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Religious (Nunplay, Priestplay)
Retifism (Shoes or Boots)
Rimming
Role Playing
Rubber
Sadism
Scent
Sensory Deprivation
Sex During Menstruation
Spanking/Paddling
The Rack/Medieval Devices
Tongue Fetish
Toys
Transvestism
Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine)
Vibrators
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Whips

What is BDSM Personals anyway?

Who's on BDSM Personals, hmmm?

So then why choose BDSM Personals?

Where do our Pervy BDSM Personals Members live? All over the world, silly :)

Where do our Pervy BDSM Personals Members live?
All over the world, silly :)