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UPDATE 3/2/22: I'm in an ENM relationship with a great woman, who is married to a wonderful loving man that has given her permission to explore her Kink. I've added some new photos of her and I intend to continue to have a relationship with her, even after I find my Primary partner. It could be a throuple or V, open to discussion.
Another note is Yes I'm a Sadist but not to everyone. I know every woman is not a masochist and that is OK. My secondary (slave C) is a maso and takes care of my Sadistic needs so I can have a relationship with a woman that is not into pain as those needs of mine are met by C.
Lastly: We are not Unicorn hunters, this will not be a 3sum, you will not be involved with my other slave. I am sincerely looking for a long term relationship with a woman that would become my Primary partner as iIcontinue to see my other slave separately.
FL MasterFNG
Hello,
I'm a very experienced Kinky man, leaning more towards Daddy Dom/Sadist, I have been into Kink for over 35 years but still enjoy learning more about the lifestyle, people and new things about myself and how I have evolved over the years. I do not live it as a 24/7 lifestyle, I have other things in my life that are more important like my , family, friends and Life. Kink is a huge part of my life but it doesn't define my life.
Over the years I have been fortunate to play with many Kinky people and I know that going forward I'll need Kink in any relationship I have. The Daddy part of me, which is a big part of my Vanilla life (in an nonKinky way lol) has helped me become a better Dom, Mentor and person. I'm more of a tough love, caring and nurturing Dom but there is always that Sadist in me trying to explore. I have a very wide variety of negotiable Kinks that I am very experienced with to include bondage, Shibari, impact play, begging, orgasm control, manhandling, hair pulling, name calling, medical play, electro play, cupping, wax to more intense edgier ones like watersports, spit, humiliation, degradation, dehumanization, fisting, face slapping, crying, Sadism... and more. Again all negotiable as I realize not everyone will be into everything I enjoy and I am very open to learning and exploring your Kinks and fantasies. I have played with people in different countries, from different cultures, backgrounds, races, ages and religions and it truly amazes me that for the most part they are tend to be very friendly, open minded, generous and respectful. I hope you all still are.
Ideally I want to find Her, the woman that will be my equal, partner, lover, friend, confidante and cuddler outside of the Kink and my sub/slave/girl in the bedroom... or shed, kitchen, garage, etc. lol. I want to learn about the Vanilla you just as much as the Kinky you and we must be compatible in both worlds. Those that I have played with have loved that I am a Nice Guy in the Vanilla world, can be a sweet Daddy Dom while playing, but also able to conjure the Sadist in me when needed. Now I don't want to give the impression I am always a Sadist, no, I mentally I could not be OK with always inflicting pain but to be honest there are times when I do need to inflict pain, on a consenting person, not solely to hurt them, but to see how far I can push myself... and it is a great stress reliever for me to be honest. That is one of the things that I enjoy about the lifestyle, the magic if you will, to be able to find like minded sane people willing to explore not so sane things in a safe environment and to come back together in the end.
Outside of Kink I'm very family oriented, open minded, easy going, love to travel, explore, try/learn new things/places/cultures, kayaking, hiking, camping, mt biking, fishing, avid reader, museums, working with my big hands and definitely the path less traveled by kind of guy. I don't like my Vanilla too Vanilla lol.
Unfortunately it seems that I need to make it clear that I am not a Sugar Daddy... I guess I should have put this up at the top as most SB or scammers won't bother reading all the way down here lol.
December 2019 I deleted my original profile that I've had here for 20 years to try to save my marriage,...to no avail, but at least I tried to eliminate the distractions and focus on what was most important.
For those that know/knew me before.... I'm back. I don't know how the hell I was able to get my old handle back but damn I'll take the little mercies Life gives me! lol
For those of you that are reading to the end and that do not know me yet.... try to..... and I hope to know and understand you and your journey thus far as well.
R
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Degrader
98% Dominant
94% Sadist
92% Rigger
85% Experimentalist
68% Voyeur
66% Brat tamer
64% Master/Mistress
64% Owner
38% Non-monogamist
35% Vanilla
26% Exhibitionist
18% Primal (Hunter)
13% Daddy/Mommy
7% Switch
0% Ageplayer
Last I just want to say to ALT that I got started here in 1999, ALT was a great place to learn about Kink and meet like minded REAL PEOPLE... not ALT is flooded with .... NOT REAL People and it is a real shame as it used to be a great resource for REAL People, not it is just an income stream for the current owners.
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Min Ideal Person:
Open minded Kinky woman that will be OK with me keeping my relationship with my slave C. Someone intelligent, funny, Positive in Life, honest, loyal, has a good heart, compassionate, enjoys the outdoors and likes to travel.
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