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OooooKay, this is quite a long read... I will start by saying I am a spanko who enjoys the company of little brats (in the most affectionate way, of course), and as so, since I woke up early this morning, I decided to create this wonderful ramble.
I will go into my thoughts on the Spanking element in the type of relationship I go for, which involves Dom/Sub in one fashion or another, though of course, this type of lifestyle is not just about spanking.
Getting to know what a girl enjoys is important, as well as having trust with individual needs... or it might not be a serious relationship sought, but just a bit of fun or even disciplinary session arrangements. I am open to all these, but will use this ramble to cover the more serious type of relaionship.
Having the girl feel loved, safe, and secure comes as part and parcel, and letting her know that if she needs someone to talk to, reassure her, comfort her, then there is a man who is there for this. Or, for the discipline element (if such is desired or craved), that there is someone that will be loving but also firm when needed. As I see it, my lap is not only for putting little girls (adult, of course
goes without saying) over/across it, but for her bottom to sit whenever she needs to talk, whisper something into my ear, lean into me for a hug/cuddle
or if she just wants to sit on my lap.
Since each girl is individual, the interaction will vary. Some girls like the Daddy/little girl dynamic; being spanked but not using the word Daddy, preferring Sir, Master, or perhaps another term of respect or endearment; Domestic Discipline; Age-Play; spankings for fun and role play; sensual spankings; maintenance spankings; or all or a mix of these. I am happy with all (well, if truthful, less so regarding Master).
Whilst heading into the realms of a girls smacked bottom (or spanked bottom with slipper, brush or wooden spoon), each girl has a different pain tolerance, so the way I see things, it should be about adapting to a little girls needs. If she wants to feel like a little girl who has misbehaved and is due to find herself bare bottomed and over Daddys/Sirs/(or similar)s knee but cannot tolerate pain, then a mild spanking (or even love taps) will be given. Some little girls might want, as the term goes, a good old-fashioned spanking, where she is brought to tears and pleads of being a good girl. And then there are those who want something inbetween. Being able to adapt, I feel, is a must.
The discipline element, for little girls that crave/want/need it, is not just about a good spanking (though I might only give a swift smack to the bottom as a warning or a few hard smacks to a bare bottom) will include bare bottom corner time and perhaps an early bath and bed. This element is also about helping to improve a little girls behaviour that she wants (or needs) to alter. Whilst helping with this, encouragement and support comes along with it.
Having said all this about spankings and punishment, having fun and enjoying each other company is a big part, from playing video games to going to amusement parks, which is always fun (apart from when in a long queue
just try to behave).
Being at a stage a girl is happy with the type of spanko she is, where a vanilla might not understand, is a good place to be. If that is she wishes to be a little on the mischievous side and does something cute and funny but at the same time is a bottom warming offence (even if a mild one-off smack), then that is a good thing.
And as for me..... I'm interested in many things, some of these are extreme sports (will have to do some snowboarding some day), fighting sports, history, sci-fi/fantasy stuff and a variety of music; rock, in particularly punk, is my main fave. I also like hiphop and rnb, but also have my moments where I like mediaeval/renaissance music (I know, a weird combination). I also like writing music in my spare time, too. I love to travel and will have to do more of it. I am also always up for trying new things. Oh, yes, drinking with friends is always a fun thing to do, which can easily combine pool, darts, cards, clubbing or simply being in a pub enjoying a drink (you can't deny, it's a riveting read I couldnt resist using that BlackAdder line).
It is also true that I have a few extra pounds. Regarding this, I am currently losing since I want to get fit again
I have to be if you are in need of a spanking and decide to cheekily moon me and run ; )
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