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3DNU  
Dominant Dynamic Delicious
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Last Visit: More than 3 months
Member Since: August 21, 2004

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Information:
Gender:   Man
Birthdate:   June 1, 1969
(54 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Spanks Well, California, United States
Relocate?:   Maybe/Yes
Height:   5 ft 11 in / 180-182 cm
Body Type:   Athletic
Smoking:   I'm a non-smoker
Drinking:   I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   Master's degree
Race:   Black
Sexual Orientation:   Straight
Speaks:   English
Hair Color:   Black
Hair Length :   Short
Eye Color :   Brown
Glasses or Contacts :   None


LifeStyle
I think about ALT lifestyle:   All the time
Role:   Dominant
Level of Experience:   Whole adult life
Dress:   Casual
Social Orientation :   Moderate
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Assertive

Personal
Facial Hair: Mustache
Body Hair: Shaved
Body Decorations : Earring(s); Body Piercings; Tattoo(s)
Male Endowment: Very long/
Very thick
Circumcised: Yes
Marital Status: Attached
Occupation: Work
Religion: Spiritual

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54 year old Man in Spanks Well, California, United States Looking For: Women

Profile for 3DNU
Standard Members may contact me and view my entire profile as I am seeking that "WOW" factor both in chemistry and presentation. Men like that butterfly feeling too. Your genuine charm and charisma is undeniable and in most cases totally irresistible for those who wish to be kinked properly. Looking for the unique not the typical and have the necessary patience to not leap in the wrong direction just because an opportunity presents itself. I prefer one on one and yet remain flexible (because it's not all about me) as I do realize that you cannot always have everything you want, when you want it. I am a firm believer that life is way too short to play games. So if your interested don't be shy about it. I don't bite. Well, I do bite but consider myself more of a nibbler. If your not interested, my very best wishes in what you seek. I seek an intruiging woman, who has a fairly good idea of what she wants or doesn't want and wants to know and learn more about the real capabilities she naturally has, yet have layed dormant. I am firm yet fair and would love the opportunity to guide you upon this journey with your best interest at heart..... DO NOT CONTACT ME IF YOU FALL INTO THE FOLLOWING BELOW: I will simply IGNORE you. (PERIOD) ALL SCAMMERS, SCHEMERS, SPAMMERS, DECEPTION ARTISTS, GOLDIGGERS, CON ARTISTS, GRIFTERS AND THE LIKE ... DO NOT CONTACT ME IF YOU FALL INTO THE FOLLOWING CATAGORY ABOVE: DO NOT WASTE MY TIME WITH NONSENSE !!!!! IN ADDITION: Any research projects for educational, personal or for legal investigative purposes, do not have my permission to use any photographs related to this profile, transmissions of photographs received or sent, or the usage, copy and pasting of any text within the body of this profile or related electronic communications. Furthermore, I DO NOT consent to any misrepresentation, likeness with or without humor, or subtle flattery involving the usage of this profile, its user name and confirmed owner/user. WARNING: WARNING: WARNING: WARNING: WARNING: "Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications" !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AND YES I HAVE THE MEANS TO BACK IT UP Now, that that's said and done, who and what is 3D? 1. A DOMINANT Black Male seeking a submissive female to have intimate and blissful erotic adventures with. I have that voracious sexual nature that is peaked by direct interactions with a sexy submissive woman. This alternative lifestyle affords me the opportunity to be and live true to myself. The Dominant. I am an ambidextrous Top. Meaning, I have the necessary skills and qualifications to naturally exude my dominant demeanor and natural personality, to distribute my masterly & disciplinarian skills, slight sadistic tendencies, studly sexual actions, and creative imagery at the appropriate times and places. I possess an above board natural charismatic dominance that can be mutually beneficial for both you and I but only if the chemistry flows evenly and heavily through our veins. I am firm yet fair with my words and actions. I say what I mean and I mean what I say. I am also accountable for my actions and believe in modeling the same high standards and behavior I expect from my sweet submissive. I really do value the gift of submission, knowing what inner and outer strength it takes to hold true to your submissive role and designated place. And more importantly I am fully aware that I must earn your gift through complete trust and total confidence and not at first wink or glance, but within a reasonable amount of time. Although I live in tropical paradise and have a plethora of activities to enjoy, nothing excites me more than having a ready and willing submissive to merge our deepest and darkest pleasures with intense exploration as we define our very existence and engage in a natural progression of Dominant and submissive. 2. DYNAMIC in the art of meaningful seduction and heightened sensuality. First and foremost I am a gentleman, and am fully aware and totally considerate of what is actually taking place during the actual BD/SM interaction. I enjoy taking a woman to her maximum senses of truth as well as her submissive limitations, and in some cases even beyond. Of course all limitations shall be respected and adhered to. You are however, expected to progress in certain areas of your role/position. Safety is always a priority, as is open communication before, during and after. Attention to detail makes for a very positive and totally satisfying experience for both the submissive (you) and the Dom (me). I don´t believe in throwing caution to the wind regarding BDSM activities. There should be a plan and a guideline, yet I do believe in following common sense and trusting natural my instincts to monitor and ensure my subs well being. So, I´m a firm believer that if it sounds to good to be true then it truly is. Safe words and or safe signals are a must and are not to be forsaken. I´m not saying that I am the best damn Dom on the planet but I assure you that your experiences with me will make a profound impact and remarkable impression on your life as well as your lifestyle. Discretion and mutual respect is required and shall always be given. Privacy is constantly respected and absolutely essential. If I have to explain things further it´s just not going to work out between you and me and you are best served to search and click elsewhere. 3. DELICIOUS in mind, body, soul and spirit. Real and genuine as a breath of fresh air. And in fairness I expect only the same from you. An easy going and down to earth type of man with a very good sense of humor and a very hearty libido. I can laugh at myself at times and strive to self improve each and every day. You are highly encouraged to do the same. I am the kind of guy that people love to be around whether in a professional or social setting. Yet I do have that deep dark side that completes the all true alpha male within me. I have been an over achiever in life, sports, and work. My expectations are high, clear, realistic, thorough and tough, yet very much achievable if we both do our part and I remain the fine example of what a true Dom illustrates and must be as I extend my loving hand and talented skills towards your submissive aspirations. I am very confident that I will make you smile both inside and out. No axes to grind against women, no past negative issues to wrestle or reckon with and no excess baggage weighing on my shoulders. Simply put, I just love to dominate a sexy submissive woman and will do this in a way that creates deep mutual satisfaction and a long lasting hunger and thirst for more and more. That special place where we can shed our inhibitions and do the things we really want to do and some of the things we can never thought possible is just waiting and aching to be explored and consumed. I have no doubt that our experiences shall be nothing short of spectacular and shall intriguingly be legendary for many years to come. The rapture awaits....as do I :} [if254 1]

My Ideal Person:
Simply put (under statement) , I am in search of a very sexy submissive female. Of course we both know there is much more to it than just mere words of descriptions. I am very open-minded and am a firm believer of not pre-judging anyone, therefore we will both know and feel the true chemistry if it really does exist between us and then we shall take it from there. I love outdoor sexual and erotic adventures and I do consider myself damn lucky to live in a place where it is not only possible but practical. I am looking forward to meeting a women who is notably sincere about living her submissiveness through expressive actions. In addition to being totally discrete, very serious and eagerly ready for exploring the erotic adventures that would make the average woman blush or turn green with envy . I am strongly attracted to submissive natured women. Always have been and that does not mean that the submissive woman is not strong both in character or intellect. She and her submissive qualities are truly special and a rare accomplishment to the very core of a real woman. If you are a switch or even a dominant I would be open to discussing the possibility of us getting together, even if its to talk and discuss what is on your mind. Now, if I peak your interest and you peak mine, to hesitate is just a waist of time. As I said in my introduction I am open-minded enough to form a relationship with the person not the tittle or profile tag. This woman can be a novice or an experienced and seasoned flower. It doesn't matter if you are a hard and true submissive, a masochist, a slave, a slut, a bottom, a sex toy/fuck doll, some of the above or all of the above. You may even feel you are in a category all your own. Never the less, I have the necessary skills, patience, qualifications and capability to meet and exceed your alternative lifestyle expectations. The main issue is that we both create a positive experience for all concerned that is safe and secure yet definitely filled with the excitement of the alternative. I already know who I am, now show me who you are, or perhaps I shall show you... Life is good, enjoy it to the fullest as you find then fulfill your destiny!


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