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So, You Think You Are submissive?
* So, You Think You Are sᴜʙᴍɪssɪᴠᴇ?
Or, do you just like "Kɪɴᴋ" in your sex life?
Because there is more to this ALTᴇʀɴᴀᴛɪᴠᴇ Lɪғᴇsᴛʏʟᴇ than the fairy tale fantasy of incredible sex, being Spanked, the image of yourself tied and writhing against your bonds, or being brought to new heights both physically or mentally, by your Dᴏᴍɪɴᴀɴᴛ.
* sᴜʙᴍɪssɪᴠᴇ ~
sᴜʙᴍɪssɪᴠᴇ (or, bottom) in BDSM is the partner in a BDSM relationship or in a BDSM Sᴄᴇɴᴇ/Sᴇssɪᴏɴ who takes the passive, receiving or obedient Rᴏʟᴇ of the other partner, Dᴏᴍɪɴᴀɴᴛ (or, Tᴏᴘ).
A sᴜʙᴍɪssɪᴠᴇ can be subjected to acts such as Fʟᴏɢɢɪɴɢ, Servitude, Dᴇɢʀᴀᴅᴀᴛɪᴏɴ and/or Humiliation and can be physically restrained by Bᴏɴᴅᴀɢᴇ, which can itself inflict Pain. A person who relinquishes control for a large percentage of their day-to-day life to a Dᴏᴍɪɴᴀɴᴛ, or who submits within a formal set of Rules and Rituals, is sometimes referred to as a sʟᴀᴠᴇ.
The term, "bottom", originates from a more general use of the word, especially in the Gay male Community, to mean receptive partner during anal sex.
A "Total bottom" is someone who assumes an exclusively passive or receptive Rᴏʟᴇ during anal or oral intercourse.
A "Power bottom" is someone who aggressively enjoys being the receptive partner.
A "Versatile bottom" is one who prefers to bottom, but who Tops occasionally.
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* See also: Dᴏᴍɪɴᴀɴᴄᴇ ᴀɴᴅ sᴜʙᴍɪssɪᴏɴ, Female Dominance, Male Dominance, Sᴀᴅᴏᴍᴀsᴏᴄʜɪsᴍ, Sᴡɪᴛᴄʜ, Tᴏᴘ, ʙᴏᴛᴛᴏᴍ ᴀɴᴅ Vᴇʀsᴀᴛɪʟᴇ. Bᴇsᴛ ᴛʜɪɴɢ ᴀʙᴏᴜᴛ Facebook ɪs: Iᴛ ᴡɪʟʟ ᴜʟᴛɪᴍᴀᴛᴇʟʏ ᴋɪʟʟ ᴛʜᴇ ᴇɴᴛɪʀᴇ ʜɪɢʜ sᴄʜᴏᴏʟ ʀᴇᴜɴɪᴏɴ ɪɴᴅᴜsᴛʀʏ · |
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* Choices, Compatibility and Knowledge ~
So, You Think You Are sᴜʙᴍɪssɪᴠᴇ?
Because there is more to this ALTᴇʀɴᴀᴛɪᴠᴇ Lɪғᴇsᴛʏʟᴇ than the fairy tale fantasy of incredible sex, Fʟᴏɢɢɪɴɢ, Pᴀᴅᴅʟɪɴɢ and Sᴘᴀɴᴋɪɴɢ, the images of Bᴏɴᴅᴀɢᴇ and you writhing against your bonds, or being brought to new heights both physically or mentally, by your Dᴏᴍɪɴᴀɴᴛ.
Not that all those wonderful things can't happen - they quite often do, but it goes deeper than what you can see, touch, hear and feel.
A good relationship involves that other important element - what you, yourself "sense".
No Dᴏᴍɪɴᴀɴᴛ wants a sᴜʙᴍɪssɪᴠᴇ that will only give up part of themselves.
You will often hear someone comment that "SHE" is NOT sᴜʙᴍɪssɪᴠᴇ, or "she's too Dᴏᴍɪɴᴀɴᴛ to be sᴜʙᴍɪssɪᴠᴇ".
Well, nowhere in the sᴜʙᴍɪssɪᴠᴇ manual does it say that you're a wallflower.
Titles need to be earned.
In this ALTᴇʀɴᴀᴛɪᴠᴇ Lɪғᴇsᴛʏʟᴇ you will find a surprising number of us have those high powered or stress jobs, and that their personal lives are well under control. We hold ourselves in high value, and have great self-esteem. This is not a Lifestyle for the timid. It's not a game that when your Lɪᴍɪᴛ/s are pushed, or when your Pain threshold is at it's max, you can say, "Okay, I've had enough, you can stop now".
Yes, a Sᴄᴇɴᴇ/Sᴇssɪᴏɴ can be controlled with a Sᴀғᴇ Wᴏʀᴅ, etc, and all Lɪᴍɪᴛ/s respected.
Read everything you can get your hands on.
But, I will tell you one thing, it's like a drug.
On a side note, there are those of us who can Pʟᴀʏ without needing to be Owned.
And, what works for YOU may not work for another.
So?
No matter what your preferences are ....
Bottom line is, the only thing that matters is pleasing the one you serve.
Do your needs and wants matter?
Choices.
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