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blkgrp2007 48 G
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Gay/Bi Men   12-04-2024

At what point to you get rude with the pushy gay men? i usually just give a simple No Thanks.. But some just can't take NO... I'm sure the women deal with this all the time. Thanks


2 Reacties, 60 Bezichtigingen, 18 Stemmen ,2.72 Score
jthp6969 39 M
4 Artikelen
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Its a bit hard   23-09-2023

But Its hard for me to tell someone of the same sex I am not interested because regardless I am a caring person so I want to make sure I do not offend anyone. What's the best advice for this?


2 Reacties, 87 Bezichtigingen, 67 Stemmen ,0.30 Score
Bartbillenkoek3 53 M
2 Artikelen
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Martel slaaf helemaal glad iedereen haat me   16-03-2023

Wie geeft me flink op mijn billen dijen en vernederd mij ?


3 Reacties, 101 Bezichtigingen, 1 Stemmen ,5.00 Score
UnsuspectingD 46 M
6 Artikelen
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Let's just say what we are thinking   20-11-2022

I know guilty of this as well times. But there is nothing more frustrating than wasting my time on someone who is stringing me along.


4 Reacties, 110 Bezichtigingen, 74 Stemmen ,0.55 Score
react2alt 53 S
10 Artikelen
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Just points to reply   20-11-2022

Just points to reply


3 Reacties, 107 Bezichtigingen, 86 Stemmen ,0.80 Score
jtpbigck69 39 M
4 Artikelen
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Saying no in a nice way   20-11-2022

how do you usually say no to someone that you are not interested in?


6 Reacties, 134 Bezichtigingen, 92 Stemmen
UnsuspectingD 46 M
6 Artikelen
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Let's just say what we are thinking   05-07-2022

I know guilty of this as well times. But there is nothing more frustrating than wasting my time on someone who is stringing me along.


2 Reacties, 112 Bezichtigingen, 93 Stemmen ,0.55 Score
midmodude4 54 M
4 Artikelen
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To be, or not to be...   26-01-2022

I got a question. Tis it nobler or more appropriate to tell someone their is no interest, perhaps with explanation or to end in perpetual silence?


1 Reacties, 39 Bezichtigingen, 28 Stemmen ,0.57 Score
JTPBIGCK3 39 M
5 Artikelen
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Anyone have any secrets they want to share?   26-01-2022

Anything taboo stories to get the convo going?


1 Reacties, 52 Bezichtigingen, 47 Stemmen
exxxhibons 67 M
4 Artikelen
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Des exceptions à la règle   04-11-2021

Y'en a beaucoup de gens qui pensent que le seul fait d'être du sexe opposé suffit pour avoir une relation sexuelle. C'est foutu, si il ni a pas d'attirance envers l'autre, sa prends des atômes crochus semblables et le reste se fait tout seul. C'est pas ca, qui nous différencie des animaux? Une dame un jour, m'avait demande directement si je voulais coucher avec, je lui avait répondu non ...


3 Reacties, 127 Bezichtigingen, 17 Stemmen ,5.25 Score
MissLoveParty1 42 V
17 Artikelen
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Not Interested   11-06-2020

What do you think is the best way to tell someone you're not interested? Especially if it's someone that you probably will see somewhere and don't want an awkward situation?


15 Reacties, 127 Bezichtigingen, 17 Stemmen ,4.40 Score
boeliev35 52 V
1 Artikel
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melken   26-12-2019

Kan iemand me vertellen hoe ik erin kan slagen om melk te produceren ? Dit liefst zo snel mogelijk om mijn Meester te kunnen dienen en gelukkig te maken want Hij wilt Zijn teef dagelijks kunnen melken als een koe. Ben al begonnen met tepel- en tietenmassage, maar zijn er betere en snellere middelen hiervoor ???


0 Reacties, 161 Bezichtigingen, 6 Stemmen ,2.80 Score
blueeyedgirl70 53 V
1 Artikel
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Already had a problem   30-10-2019

I've been a member here less than 24hrs and I've been extremely polite to each and every response I've recieved yet one member asked for my YM ID after our first email. I politely told him that I don't give out my YM ID's (I leave them off my profile for a reason) as I've had problems on another site in the past. He immediately emailed me back and rudely informed me I must be of lower ...


11 Reacties, 371 Bezichtigingen, 34 Stemmen ,6.92 Score
_Lord_Darkness 54 M
4 Artikelen
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Das Nein an sich   30-09-2019

Nein sagen ist wohl das schwierigste das es gibt, denn es hat ja doch so viele konsequenzen - wie man meint und am besteh man hat auch noch gleich eine selbstentschuldigung dafür parat ?!

Aber dem ist doch nichts so, wir haben es alle nur verlernt, denn mit einem Nein, erfüllen wir alle erwartungen die in uns gesetz werden auf keinen fall, und dass wollen wir dank unsere erziehung ...


1 Reacties, 43 Bezichtigingen, 6 Stemmen ,1.94 Score
wolfgang37 63 M
1 Artikel
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Es ist doch so einfach....   22-09-2019

In meiner ersten Zeit auf alt.com, hatte ich überzogene/unrealistische Erwartungen, dass ist mir heute, auch durch wunderbaren Austausch mit anderen Mitgliedern, klar geworden. Allerdings, war/ist dies mein erster Versuch der Partnersuche über das Internet, und es ist doch einiges, was ich lernen musste. Zum Beispiel, dass auf Anschreiben nicht reagiert wird (ich bin da anders ...


10 Reacties, 439 Bezichtigingen, 48 Stemmen ,7.25 Score
Niceblueeeyes36 47 M
9 Artikelen
Score 0.0
Polite rejection   05-08-2019

Have never suffered with too much ill feeling over being rejected, although do how the arrogance of how some deliver it. Currently if I want to tell someone they are not my type, I have found that it softens it or puts it into perspective to say that they are simply not my 'flavour'. Wondering if that sounds crass? but it seems to make sense to me. Sound like Volvo's some like Porches, some like ...


4 Reacties, 58 Bezichtigingen, 13 Stemmen ,4.65 Score
dame_und_tvzofe2 55 S
1 Artikel
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Ganz einfach, klar und direkt   23-07-2019

Nein Danke! Kann und darf man eigentlich in jeder Situation sagen. Es ist egal ob es vom Dom oder sub kommt, überhaupt bevor es zu einer Session kommt, ist ein intensives kennen lernen eine Grundvoraussetzung. Wenn die Chemie nicht stimmt, kann man immer sagen „ Mit uns, das wird nichts“ Selbst nur das beantworten einer Nachricht fällt vielen Mitgliedern (hauptsächlich Damen) ...


1 Reacties, 168 Bezichtigingen, 17 Stemmen ,5.39 Score
soulstrands 66 V
3 Artikelen
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The Sun, the Moon and the Stars, and I said no thank you   10-11-2018

I was recently approached by a Dominant that offered me potentially everything. Several homes in amazing locations, a connection to nature and life around them, boats, cars, lake, city, prestige, a private dungeon, freedom to spend, shop, primp, live what could be seen as the life of Riley.

His letters to me were so far and away from the norm I receive, they caught my attention and ...


11 Reacties, 452 Bezichtigingen, 29 Stemmen ,6.15 Score
MissTriciaTPE 69 V
0 Artikelen
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CUT AND PASTE FOR SCAMMERS   12-06-2018

EVERY DAY on ALT.COM several million scammers are seeking YOU out.! <br><br> Does YOUR profile make you seem NEEDY ? <br><br> <br><br> As a PRO DOM who YES. makes a financial living from this lifestyle. let me explain what I mean .. <br><br> LOOK AT YOUR PROFILE , And I mean REALLY LOOK at it .. ...


1 Reacties, 26 Bezichtigingen, 6 Stemmen ,3.37 Score
The_Beast_Master 57 M
4 Artikelen
Score 0.0
Saying no is better than bullshitting   30-01-2017

I have been approached by many women who have initially provided me with bullshit photos so what do you say to them? No thanks


2 Reacties, 109 Bezichtigingen, 10 Stemmen ,4.18 Score
salesman58 65 M
10 Artikelen
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seems easy but...   01-11-2016

Wish I had the chance to say no to some of the ladies here, but more often is men looking for another man that do not take NO very easily. Why don't some read profiles?


2 Reacties, 38 Bezichtigingen, 12 Stemmen ,4.39 Score
nowhome34952 64 M
4 Artikelen
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Nothing wrong   15-10-2016

To me there is nothing wrong with saying no thanks. I have been in this lifestyle for many years 30 and counting. I have seen, heard and done a lot and trust me not everything is for everyone. Just find someone who fits you wants and desires and then push the envelope a little but don't go out of the comfort zone. This lifestyle only works well with trust, openness, honesty and desire.


3 Reacties, 41 Bezichtigingen, 9 Stemmen ,4.28 Score
yourboackboorFB 71 M
3 Artikelen
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I wish people would say no thanks!!!   18-10-2015

People don't just ignore e-mails!!!! Write back and so no thanks!!! Way to many e-mails go unanswered!!!! It is the polite thing to do!!!!


8 Reacties, 115 Bezichtigingen, 13 Stemmen ,4.99 Score
Slavejasmine09 39 M
1 Artikel
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be open and up front   21-06-2015

be open and up front and talk about what you both want and be willing to try new things


1 Reacties, 28 Bezichtigingen, 6 Stemmen ,3.65 Score
Patricia1975755 48 V
3 Artikelen
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Ca sert à quoi?   07-08-2014

Il sert à quoi de dire non merci, dans le sexe j'entend. On veut me prendre, pourquoi dirais-je non puisque je suis une femme, donc faite pour donner du plaisir. D'autres désirent m'offrir à un ami ou un inconnu, impossible de dire non, j'aime me donner et recevoir, alors pourquoi dirais-je non merci? Patricia


5 Reacties, 178 Bezichtigingen, 21 Stemmen ,4.98 Score
norann 52 M
6 Artikelen
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random hits to your profile   16-01-2012

Anybody else wonder what contributes to some of randome visits to your profile? Of course it is flaterring but curious as well when somoeone for very far away drops by for a look.


5 Reacties, 176 Bezichtigingen, 8 Stemmen ,3.01 Score
bound_sweetness 65 V
2 Artikelen
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I try to be respectful   06-01-2012

Even when saying, no thank you, since respect is important. One can not just say 'fuck off' .. well wait, one can but it's entirely rude. Instead i like to point out why i consider the whole effort a complete wash. It's actually a fairly good way of pointing things out if mistakes have been made. Things that people should consider.... i think it helps them in their searches. Sometimes ...


2 Reacties, 239 Bezichtigingen, 19 Stemmen ,5.10 Score
GoddessKell 55 V
3 Artikelen
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Dont Take it personal....   14-09-2011

Dont take it personal when you meet someone and the "chemistry" just isnt there. The thing you have to remember is that 99% of the people you meet you wont get along with EVEN if they are physically attractive. The key to finding the right person is knowing that YOU want and need from a potential Dom/me sub/slave and then DONT SETTLE for anything less. When I am meeting someone whom I ...


2 Reacties, 143 Bezichtigingen, 9 Stemmen ,4.07 Score
juanita58 63 V
1 Artikel
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Ehrlichkeit wird honoriert........   16-08-2011

ein "Nein Danke" ist für mich nicht ein Problem. Ich bin da eher aldmodisch, zumindest kommt es mir so vor, denn ich bevorzuge es EHRLICH zu sein. So werde ich stets direkt ein Ja oder Nein übermitteln. Leider halten es nicht alle mit der Ehrlichkeit....!!!!!! Bisher habe ich damit aber nur positive Erfahrungen gemacht. Auch wenn ein NEIN meinem Gegenüber nicht so unbedingt gefällt, so ...


2 Reacties, 239 Bezichtigingen, 12 Stemmen ,4.92 Score
jessica69695 54 T
7 Artikelen
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geld sturen   19-03-2011

Ik ben in contact gekomen met een beeldschone Filipijnse shemale. Het eerste wat ze vroeg is of ik haar geld wilde sturen. Ze bleef aandringen. Ze wilde haar adres niet geven. Ik moest het naar een kantoor in de Filipijnen sturen. Ik heb het tensloote niet gedaan. Nu is ze boos en heeft het contact verbroken. Heb ik juist gehandeld?

Jessica


0 Reacties, 62 Bezichtigingen, 12 Stemmen ,5.63 Score