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ralph696969 58M
15445 posts
3/26/2017 6:50 am
how it seems


seems that there are lots of ready women around
seems that i am wanted by many of them
seems that being called Master is the order of the day
seems that being told they need to skype with me to prove themselves is a not very appealing process
how is it that you can find someone
how is it that you can find someone really interested
how is this all done with simply a phone and computer
how is it that others seem perfectly happy with penpal relationships
seems a waste of time to me
seems less than real
seems like a scam
seems like anything but wanting a real relationship
how is it that people find others here
how is it that folks seriously meet partners
how is it that wanting to skype is a bad thing
how is it that subs and Doms make sense of this
seems like the ready are not so ready
seems like the women are not usually women
seems like being someone's Master is simple
provided you want nothing more than to have this written communique that speaks to all needs and wants
seems like real is a joke
seems like finding someone on here is a joke
seems like i am the only real one somedays
seems i understand little of this place after 11 years

treat others as you wish to be treated this is why everyone around me gets cake!!!!!!


benoite 59F  
5667 posts
3/26/2017 9:09 am

REAL is a rarity!
I don't understand why people settle for less.
B


Everything in the world is about sex, except sex, sex is about power. - Oscar Wilde


tinkerfun 43F  
9402 posts
3/26/2017 9:20 am

I wonder how many of these men here are fake? I would imagine far less than women...

It would be nice if they had some basic manners though.


planelst2 67M
93 posts
3/26/2017 9:44 am

Just to add...

Seems like most think that you are gullible
Seems like they think of you as a human ATM

Just seems like it


jenny14 68T  
65459 posts
3/26/2017 10:04 am

ralph

I agree - it is unreal to many but some still enjoy this type of relationship or start to one...my .02 worth


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


_Please_SeduceMe 48F  
2700 posts
3/26/2017 10:18 am

I do not skype - but I do attend and host open Munches to meet people in my area. You are welcome to join us any time! one is Tuesday the 28th of March


1uncommondom 69M  
483 posts
3/26/2017 10:23 am

This is not an attack on bloggers – I adore a gorgeous feed, and I spend way too much time looking at them and liking them. What I am attacking is our need to look or be perfect when we know that we are not . . and perfection, after all, isn't what it seems.
But I know you can't possibly believe, {at our age} that anything is as it seems!!
So next time that little voice in your head starts saying, “wouldn’t it be nice if your life looked like THAT?” in response to a particularly fabulous profile/home/meal/exotic destination, catch yourself.
You know that what you’re looking for won't appear as it really is . . but appreciate the picture of what it seems to be.


planelst2 67M
93 posts
3/26/2017 3:41 pm

    Quoting ralph696969:
    i've thought that way in the past yet it seems lately i find nothing but those that want relocation costs
I had one like that a few weeks ago...was willing to leave and come here after only 20 minutes of talking...seems like one should wonder about the motive...truth or fiction?


planelst2 67M
93 posts
3/26/2017 4:15 pm

That was apparent...when I denied her request for gas money,she stopped communicating


planelst2 67M
93 posts
3/26/2017 5:06 pm

    Quoting ralph696969:
    i'm sure she is in Nigeria upset as hell
LOL....Probably


Hard2LoveNurse 60F  
9470 posts
3/26/2017 6:57 pm


I can say I met a few from here...way back when I first joined alt. One was a dominant. I lived with him for several years. We were both REAL, lol!!
But he had issues, we all do, right. But I was not able to live with his.
And so it ended. It is strange though, that so many seem content with
nothing. I too use to attend munches and the BDSM clubs in Denver.
I met a police officer and he was REAL, lol!! But he was married. His wife
was okay with it, I was not!!
I just relocated to Arizona, soon when I feel adjusted and stable I will venture
out to one of their clubs!!
I blog because it is therapeutic and helps with all the challenges I face
in my daily life!!
Your REAL Buddha, right!!
I say stay positive and never give up, because what or who you seek might
just be looking for you as well!!


"Seeking soul-mate!! Seduce my mind and you can have my body, find my soul and I’m yours forever!! "


imalwayson 50F  
1615 posts
3/26/2017 10:03 pm

I've met a few from here; some have become friends, some were nothing more than a first meet over coffee or dinner, some became play partners at one time or another. Then there are those totally unrealistic, obvious fakes and not worth continuing a conversation. I've found that most bloggers that I've met in real time are who they say they are, with one exception. Just my two cents.

Infinite... the ultimate expression of who I am ~ Gemini Syndrome


drmgirl622 62F  
6253 posts
3/27/2017 3:32 pm

I've had the pleasure of meeting one great blogger from this site.....I've got to make it a point to wander farther north and meet a few others close by



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