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government at work
Posted:Apr 22, 2017 8:27 am
Last Updated:Apr 22, 2017 10:44 am
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wow want to see the government working at a fast pace..

mail them a check for your city taxes some time...

.I went to the bank on friday with my paycheck and looked at my balance. I asked the teller to look at my account and see if that tax check( to the city) had cleared yet ( it was a big check.. 1 percent of my total income)..

and yep...it was cashed...it took them 1 whole day

Funny how government can work fast when they are taking your money...now lets see how fast they respond with city services
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Legends of tomorrow
Posted:Apr 22, 2017 8:18 am
Last Updated:Apr 22, 2017 10:45 am
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I will preface this by saying I am not a bandwagon sorta guy.. I don't watch tv shows just because other people are. I have never seen an episode of breaking bad or Game of thrones or whatever people out there binge watch..

I will also confess that I'm not a comic book movie guy.. I think the last one I actually saw was the avengers???

So I was hesitant to watch a tv series on netflix about superheros from DC comics .. I mean I did watch "arrow" and "daredevil".. but only for a season or two at best.

So last night I decided to watch " legends of tomorrow".
..I mean why not rip off one of the longest sci fi franchises of all time.. doctor who. I mean that was my initial thoughts anyway.....
rouge time agent that disagrees with the time council's decision to not mettle.. he literally steals a time traveling ship...
(add a few pepper pots and you got yourself one hell of a show)

BUT the powers that be at DC comic were smart and appeased the fan boys/fan girls...

the "doctor" ( well they don't call him the doctor in this tv show)...the captain is going to be played by a well liked ex doctor who companion ..rory..

So with a slight wink and a nod.. I'll let that all slide..

Another thing that slightly troubled me is the casting..
this seems to be one of those shows where the producer or writer brings in his/her people from previous shows...joss wheton is famous for reusing actors in his new projects.

So this show has that superman guy.. it has rory from doctor who.. it has the two guys from prison break...so yeah I wondered if this was gonna be a quality show or the "b" line up. I wondered if one of the actors was gonna be a diva and act like it was their show.

Ironically the best thing stolen from doctor who was the ideal of this being a character driven show. There is no need for cgi/expensive special effects or grade A actors.
The show is based on the characters and how they interact in their world...do we as the audience really care about them? Are they all just stereotypes?

For example every series now has to feature this "hunger games" wannabee strong female with ninja skills.....so when I saw the character of "white canary"...who use to be black canary.. I thought it was gonna be the same ole same ole song and dance.

and honestly if I want to see a woman beat the crap out of males twice her height and weight...I'll watch xena.

But only a few episodes in ,but I feel like the writers have alliterative motives....I have a sneaky feeling the writers are trying to portray these characters as humans first and then their powers second.

Sure she is a ninja assassin ( aren't they all )... but as the series progresses you get to see her fighting less. The same with the "atom" who has a power suit. The atom loses a piece of the suit in the past and then the next adventure he isn't wearing it.
( which is a nice plot device to save money and get rid of the cgi crap)

The guys from "prison break" are cast as villains ( basically captain cold with a freeze pistol and a guy with a fire gun.. they are quickly stereotyped as thieves.
But we are starting to see their past and their background.
Their strongest power is their humanity and their ability to work as a team/care for one another.

I find the characters all interesting...BUT hate the evil guy...like omg this is the next "hitler" the tyrant that takes over the world...wow boring as watching paint dry..which is a shamelt; This guy has the acting skills of a pro wrestler.

So I decided to IMDB the series and find out more about the actors etc....another cool trick this series picked up from doctor who... the replacement of the cast( companions)...
and it seems like DC comics allowed them to play with a wide variety of their minor characters ( so yeah your not gonna get superman or batman)...but the cast does rotate.

I'm about three episodes in and like the over all show. Hopefully the writers are clever enough to see beyond the whole plot of the evil dictator.. if every episode is about them going back into time at a certain point and foiling his plots, then it becomes ...wash/rinse and repeat television.
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oh so that is what that hole is for
Posted:Apr 19, 2017 4:13 am
Last Updated:Apr 22, 2017 3:38 pm
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okay stop it you cheeky butt monkeys and get your minds out of the gutter..

For two weeks I've been eating off of paper plates and plastic silverware as my roomie redecorated the kitchen...and then the dishwasher died on melt;..the dwasher refused to drain

well me being..well me...decided to rip it apart and find out what is going on...I figured it was just clogged up

So after cleaning years of broken glass/paper and gunk out of the machine...my roomie's hubby tell me that he forgot to puncture the hole on the left side of the garbage disposal that he connected the d washer hose to...

so the water was literally not draining period...

After that...it worked fine...

So yeah I finally got clean plates
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Big Bang theory is slowly becoming my life
Posted:Apr 18, 2017 4:23 am
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2017 6:23 pm
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Slowly I'm becoming one of the guys from the big bang theory....

I'm a lil on the nerdy side/enjoy science fiction ( doc who/star trek etc)/enjoy science in general/enjoy video games/comic books etc/hardly a gym rat and more of a cuddle muffin/ not great with the ladies/netflixs and chill to me means hanging out with friends,grabbing a pizza and binge watching some new show/I tend to be more comfortable around men

oh and like 90 percent of the cast..yeah I like penis.

Plus I can play a mean game of klingon boggle..lol...

so what sitcom does your life most resemble
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wow if you thought alt was rough..you ought to try nilla
Posted:Apr 18, 2017 4:10 am
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2017 8:33 am
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Chris rock had a good comedy routine...he was referring to people that work in a restaurant.. but I'm borrowing it for this blog..

IF you don't like the people in the front.. your gonna hate the people in the back.

if your having a hard time finding someone on alt...just try going off alt sometime..

SURE SURE some of the nilla sites allow you to work in the idea that your "kinky"...personally I think ok cup does the best job with it's nilla personal ads ( but then it gets kink orientated in it's questionnaires...like do you enjoy being tied up or do you like physical pain etc. Hell I learned more about someone via these questions then I did in their whole ad

And Yes alot of the gay sites do allow you to list that you enjoy misc fetishes or that your into the leather scene.
BUT NO MAN APPARENTLY READS PROFILES!!!!.. hell the ladies will be the first to tell you that

And honestly I do believe as a whole the gay community is more laid back when it comes to kink...

But apparently not..lol....I tried talking with this one guy and omg it was literally like pulling teeth. It's not sexy if you have to explain kink to someone..
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how about a flat tax for a flat world
Posted:Apr 17, 2017 4:35 am
Last Updated:Apr 17, 2017 4:41 pm
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I luv how so many people are screaming for trump to "release his tax info " etc etc etc...

when we all know damn well the rich don't pay taxes..doesn't matter if it is trump or jay z or bill gates etc.....or fuck even oprah....
Pick your fav celeb or athlete and demand they show their tax returns..chances are..YEP they too didn't pay their taxes fairly/hid money or bent the rules to avoid paying their fair share

I'd also like to mention there are ALOT of poor people in this country that don't pay taxes either ( not a bash on the poor..just stating the obvious)...

So about this time every year everyone seems to enjoy the concept of a flat tax...

everyone talks about it yet it never gets done...

I'm not suggesting we squeeze the poor or "eat the rich".. but perhaps it is time to loosen the burden on the fucking middle class.

In KC I pay fed tax/state tax/city of kc tax/ I pay property tax for stuff I already own like house and car/ I pay a gas tax/on top of that I pay state and local sales tax when I buy anything here.
Fuck I can't even avoid not paying sales tax from amazon because the idiots build a warehouse in my state.

But perhaps it is time we spread the pain around a lil...people seem to be all in favor of raising my taxes to say improve the local schools. they have no problem as long as this pain is spread around and not coming directly out of their pockets.

So why don't we do that with everything else..don't know about you but all my deductions and work related expenses did nothing to reduce my tax numbers..
So I didn't even bother taking these deductions.. I figured it might just set off some damn red flags at the IRS...like oMG the motherfucker wants to write off his steel toed boots..we gotta audit his ass .

So it makes me wonder how much in taxes am I really paying? and would I be better off with a flat tax...
That is a question most americans don't ask themselves because the taxes come out of their paycheck in small proportions.. they never notice it until tax time.

I thought since so many of the younger generation actually believe in shit like a "flat earth".. perhaps it is time to slide in the concept of a flat tax.. I mean it seems like they already understand taxes when it comes to the pro argument for legalization of weed.
A flat tax shouldn't be hard to grasp.
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at a bdsm crossroads in my life
Posted:Apr 15, 2017 8:44 am
Last Updated:Apr 19, 2017 4:15 am
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I'm at a bit of a crossroads in my life.....not really sure which way to proceed and just standing there looking off into the distance for a clue..

I have alot of options, but none of them seem like " the easy" solution to me..

My particular situation may not apply to you specifically... but I think we all had to make similar decisions about the lifestyle

I will preface this by saying that I am single/been in the lifestyle for like 16 years/not married/no kids /free to live the lifestyle anyway I chose.....so for me it isn't an issue of having to hide what I enjoy or having a spouse that isn't into it etc etc etc.

I'd consider myself very gender fluid.. I prefer men in general but am open to all really.. I don't have a problem dating/playing with women ( esp luv bbw )/the transgendered/lesbians/cross dressers etc etc etc.
I'm more attracted to people first and then worry about what is between their legs..

So your probably wondering wtf leo.. sounds like you have alot of freedom and a big pool of people to search from..

I guess right now my viable options really are:

1. I could go vanilla and just date men.. ( wow hope that isn't a sticker shock to anyone that reads my blog..lol)
I would say date women ( but that doesn't work for them usually (seeing how I'm a complete bottom sexually)..
Women seem to really like me ( why? I am a very good listener and I'm super sensual.
I'm very surreal and understand the art of touch/cuddling/using one's mouth and tongue/spending time just arousing her body

My problem is these women get super horny and then expect a dude to jackhammer them into next tuesday....so yeah for me it is a "crash and burn " and I never want to see you again situation. I tend to avoid straight vanilla women like the plague.

Seems like the only two groups that are totally fine ( and actually prefer) a bottom guy are gay/bi men and Dommes. For them it's like..hey that's cool and sexy. ( what's your number?)

My problem is I like ( but don't luv every aspect of the lifestyle)....
I doubt I could just go cold turkey and go vanilla though.
. BUT fortunately for me there is alot of things that men do together that totally borrows from the lifestyle...
Men together already do alot of kinky shit but just don't label it.. it isn't a fetish moreso just something casual that they both enjoy...so it goes from something out of the norm to much ado about nothing.
Im not saying every gay man is kinky.. just that kink is more laid back.. it isn't this huge sticker shock.

2.I could sub for a Domme.. but the pickings are sorta slim. I know of this one Domme that I played with in the past. I thought we had a great time until we reached the moment where she wanted to be fucked. Which was ironic considering her ad never stated that and still doesn't..lol ( am I really that good?)

Yet I do like the things she listed in her ad still...she isn't hardcore into pain...but wants to spank/flog/mild cbt...she basically is the goddess type that wants to be worshiped etc.
I wonder though if I could make it with a straight woman though...She is the type that basically wants ALOT of oral ( which I'm great at/luv doing by the way//perhaps it is my way of compensating for not wanting to top sexually?)
But like alot of straight women, she wants mr perfect. I had the feeling last time that she really was looking for a boyfriend/sub than just a sub. ( as in meet the friend as the bf but become the sub when the door was closed)
Plus with her there would be no strap on/nothing really anal

I'm not ready to write to her yet because I'm not sure what to really say.. For this to really work for me I'd have to bring up the notion that I enjoy strap ons or am really interested in chastity

3. I could sub for an actual Gay Dom....which I am cool with. BUT most Gay Doms tend to be more extreme and engage with alot of sexual activities that would put someone at a higher risk for things like HIV...basically multiples or sharing a dude etc.
I tried to perhaps get with a Gay "Daddy" instead but he also played with multiple dudes and wasn't willing to be "safer" and just play with me.
The risk wasn't worth the reward for me.

4. I could get with this one gay daddy.. but he seems like the " pleaser" type.. he will do whatever the sub wants to do . He seems harmless enough.. problem though is he is a 40 miles drive one way..

I think my problem is I want a good bud to have playtimes with once or twice a week without all the hassle of being owned etc
You'd think that would be easy to find......so I sit at the crossroads and just stare into the distance with no where to go
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the three way ( poly style)
Posted:Apr 14, 2017 4:44 am
Last Updated:Apr 14, 2017 6:58 am
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I am use to seeing poly because of the lifestyle. Here it isn't a biggie and people post ads all the time for a 3rd.

But I was sorta taken back when i saw it on a more vanilla site. In this case this gay couple was looking for a 3rd ..

and the odd thing was the ad wasn't for a hookup...this was a committed couple looking for a committed 3rd...I.e. they were looking for friends first and then bringing the guy into the relationship...they basically said they had room in their hearts to love another guy..

So I guess it would sorta be like sister wives???? ( only with dicks..)

By now I'm guessing your all doing the mental math of how 3 guys would get it on in such a relationship.

Well in this dynamic the couple normally is looking for a bottom in their ad.. the couple usually consist of a top guy and a verse guy ( likes to top and bottom),,
But they both are looking to fuck the new guy..lol.. ( hey the first time it ever payed to be the new guy and get fucked over royally)

So it's sorta like a lifestyle couple consisting of a Dom/me and switch looking for a complete sub to play with..
Both are looking to Dom/me the new sub

I think this dynamic would skip over the usual 3 way jealousy because the bottom isn't gonna favor one gender of the couple over the other...
Usually the sub/bottom will prefer/ gravitate towards one gender over the other and that can create some friction. I know that is why I can't play with couples, the hubby usually gets jealous of all the attention his wife is giving me

In this case those the bottom/the new guy doesn't really get that choice.. he gets a top and well a "top"...and when your a complete bottom guy.. hey two dicks are better than one

The top has no reason to get jealous of the other two because he can fuck either one.
The verse has no reason to get jealous because he can get it either giving or receiving
The bottom has no reason because even if the top is topping the verse.. the verse will always have something for him later on.

I was just curious if you ever ran into a LGBT sorta 3 way relationship...do you know any gay poly couples?

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sometimes you just don't need a porshe..being at different stages of life
Posted:Apr 12, 2017 4:58 am
Last Updated:Apr 12, 2017 6:32 pm
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well I'm now officially 0 for 3 in the " lifestyle" world.....But that is cool too..perhaps these people weren't right for me...

sometimes we try to pound that square peg into that round hole just because of the lifestyle things that we enjoy.

In the last "episode" he had the empty nester's syndrome...finally got rid of his adult kid and had the house to himself/could explore the lifestyle at his own leisure etc .
So it's sorta like being a teenager left home alone..all you can think about is having a party.

In this case he wanted to jump into a porshe and drive 120mph ( well not literally.. I'm using this as a metaphor) in terms of the lifestyle.

He joined a local club and plays with various people/men in various lifestyle and sexual ways...
Please don't read into this..I'm not judging this guy..I've known plenty of other empty nesters/lifestyle folks that did the same exact thing.. it's just sorta ironic that we put extra emphasizes on this because it is m2m. Yet the other folks are also taking risk ( stds or hell even Hiv) as well. I seriously doubt I'd wanna be with them either

Me? on the other hand am not interested in being with various people.( of either sex)..I only desire one person...so I find myself more into the dating scene than say the No strings attached sorts thing. That is why I always wondered why women at bars want to get with the stud "johney nutsack"... God only knows how many vaginas he has been into..

For me the risk of being with such a guy was too great.. the more guys you add into the mix the greater your risk becomes...

It is a vicious cycle.. if it bad enough trusting one man to be clean...now try trusting a man that plays with other guys or multiple people...

I mean why would I need multiple men in my life...everything they can give me, I can get from one good man or woman ( with a strap on lol)... It just makes sense to be with one person and have an honest relationship with them.

I'm not judging this guy.. but I'm not at that stage of my life and don't wish to take those sorta risk. your sleeping with a guy who sleeps with men ( and God only knows who the fuck they have been sleeping with)

So I find myself driving the speed limit in a honda accord instead...

But atleast this way I feel like I can be myself ( embrace being a total bottom boy) without worrying so about speeding...

I just feel if you drive a fast car eventually it will catch up to you and you will get pulled over.

I think my bigger problem is trying to find someone that actually wants to date.. chances are I'm gonna have to look outside the lifestyle for suck a person
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wow just watched the united airline assault on the poor asian doctor
Posted:Apr 10, 2017 5:02 pm
Last Updated:Apr 11, 2017 7:58 am
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I only have two word...fuck united!!!!!!!!!!!

And yes it even has me saying "fuck the police".. that man that you assaulted did no wrong//he committed no crime/he wasn't even a suspect..

He just wanted to go home...there is no more basic or raw emotion than that.

You watched blood pour from his nose and mouth and you still drug him down the aisle of that plane screaming

And for what? was he a terrorist? did he have a weapon or maybe was a threat?
OH HELLLL NO...

just a paying customer that refused to give up his seat to an united employee that had to "deadhead" to that destination..

Fuck united..fuck the police..fuck douche bag jenner..she can take that pepsi can and cram it up her assssssss
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