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Yeah I know them...they did what!!
Posted:Jan 11, 2017 5:11 pm
Last Updated:Aug 20, 2017 8:12 pm
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A few weeks into 2017 & it's crazy the number of injuries & people getting sick. Friends having relatives getting sick....accidents in the shop with others, people falling down multiple times & banging them selves good or breaking bones..... me I just went sliding accross the ice into the car in a less then dignified manner.

Thought we left all this crap behind in 2016??

Edit: And apperantly just had word the friend lost his mom... circle of life I guess.
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On 'The Visit'
Posted:Nov 8, 2016 9:22 pm
Last Updated:Nov 11, 2016 10:50 am
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As I head for home it still is a bit hard to sort out how to write this blog...

Seeing herself is always a real treat....and no matter for how long it always feels it isn't long enough.

It has to be about a year since we have seen each other...so I did have a few indiscretions to pay for....& while cuffed, collared I did pay....or maybe it was just her pleasure or just she was trying to move my vanilla background further into BDSM & her realm.....or maybe a bit of all of those...and more ..

I was invited to count the number of implements in her large collections she did use on me....no I am not sure how many... Yes it hurt a bit, no I didn't use the safe word which I hope pleased her...and yes she did indeed take it far easier on me then she could have.

Yes kneeling to serve her needs, is a treat.... It is even more of a treat to make her laugh a bit.. Yes she really is quite a wonderful lady... And while I may be just a bit biased...no I am not exaggerating...

And yes I would love to serve again tomorrow .....
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The **Magic Secret** to finding your Dom....
Posted:Nov 12, 2015 3:18 pm
Last Updated:Jul 21, 2017 9:42 am
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So I recently got a message asking what my secret was to finding a Dom on Alt.. Why was I able to make it work...after they presumably read my last blog.

So I thought I would speak to this...not that with a whopping 6 months on this site I should be considered any kind of an expert. Some of this I have written about in other blogs...

So the SECRET is ....... There is no secret.. No special hand shake, no infra red beam. Etc. BUT.....Try plain common sense mixed with a healthy dose of RESPECT & politeness for them...

I imagine this may work the same way for male Dom's but I simply don't know.

Every Female Dom I have talked to is a Lady... She expects to be treated as such. They have a LOT of guys to choose from out there...remember that one. While you may think you are special guys, just remember this is about them... Not you, not me......them

So approach this from the point of view as to what you can do for them, not the other way around. Again, all of the dominant ladies I have talked to are very smart & they will see a con job coming a long way away. My Mistress is wickedly smart.... So start & continue by just telling the truth.

Try speaking to them respectfully like a normal human being... A line like " hey I love your boots, why don't you let me come over & polish them for you".... Could simply get the floor opening up & you with it. ( Ok I embellish a bit but you get the idea). They are Doms, not switches & very definitely not subs. If you are not a sub....just move on now.

If you want to contact them....take the time to read there profile... If you don't they will know & it becomes very obvious to them. Saying you want to serve them, but the first line in there profile says they are not looking.....!!

Now guys you can do whatever you want in your profile, including using what ever picture you want... But just telling you that by representing yourself with a pic of your cock, may not be the best way to make a good impression on them.

Also I keep referring to Indero Minx's blog... "Ladies don't like excuses". That just says it all.

If they are interested they will let you know...if they aren't or say sorry no... Don't go back & ask why not.... We all have things we look for, simply some times they don't mesh.

If they are interested you will probably get an opportunity to chat, email or can to see if each or either of you wants to take things further. I am fortunate with my Dom in that we chat frequently, many times about things that are not BDSM related.

IF things go well, well you are on your own... You get to figure the rest out yourself.

But remember like anything else that is the beginning ....these things take time & it needs to be worked on. If you make a mistake or do something bad.....stop & tell her... I have made several, none intentionally but on at least one occasion I did actively annoy my mistress... One I am still trying to make better, at least in my mind.

Now if there are any ladies who want to add to this or correct me, please feel free......
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