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alt5250 52M
245 posts
4/20/2017 8:00 pm
Comfortable or Complacent?

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MissAnn5 57F  
7241 posts
4/21/2017 2:48 am

Well... I Don't know about others... but I Never Got Bored ... I Think It Was The Trust That I Was So Comfortable with ... that It Allowed Me To Plunge Deeper In to experimenting and trying different things .... there's so many things to try with a person you Trust So Well.... How Often Can We Find ' That ' Trust ?
Was Like Being In A Candy Store !!


alt5250 replies on 4/22/2017 6:44 pm:
Yes can nfort level has much to do with it...

rosaenaluin 58F  
300 posts
4/21/2017 11:49 am

I can only tell my view,

I think, that when in a 24/7 Totall Authority Transfer relation, i will be more and more getting pleasure from giving pleasure, to my man/dom/master....

Just more and more in connection with him on all levels, mind soul and body..

knowing him, makes submitting and service him only more, and more natural..
complacent does not seem to be the right attitude.

When my totall focus is on him, there is no room for complacent anything
it is always, all days all nights... being his.

sure i have my work, family matters, and all that, but that has nothing to do, with being his...
just my thoughts....

I dont know nothing about the play sex role games....the part time sexual only submission.


celtdragn 46F  
29 posts
4/21/2017 2:20 pm

I think it call comes down to what you put into it. As with anything there is the possibility of becoming complacent if you do not put the effort in to make it fresh, more in depth. Taking interest in each other to being the best you can be, and paying attention to the nuances, exploring with each other to bring each other more.

Was told once that in life we are only limited by our own imagination and fears.


softlyerotic 47F  
101 posts
4/21/2017 3:46 pm

I think it's human nature to get comfortable in any role after a certain amount of time. In the human dynamic, we learn each others triggers, positive and negative. All relationships can get boring, if both partners don't continue to seek change and growth. That's what keeps things fresh and interesting. Becoming stagnant can be the kiss of death for a relationship.



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