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Ms Jay's Blog

A place for me to write about my tease & denial and BDSM adventures with my sub/hub and other friend's. And now also the start of cuckholding and use of a bull to continue my subs long-term denial.

Secret Messages
Pubblicato:2 Gennaio 2014 5:08 pm
Ultimo aggiornamento:1 Aprile 2024 9:15 am
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Want to tell me something but don't want everyone else to know? Not able to send emails or hotlists? You can leave me a PM here and I'll get back to you.

Remember to come back and check in a day or two as the system will not notify you when I respond.
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Remote Toy Fun
Pubblicato:9 Aprile 2024 9:04 am
Ultimo aggiornamento:12 Aprile 2024 3:37 pm
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Words are still being deleted from the main post, so this will repeat as the first comment.

In February, one of the online shops we buy toys from had a Valentines sale of buy one, get one half price sale on Lovenes products. My sub asked if we could buy a couple for use on car rides and such. I was a little skeptical on the "such" part but allowed him to make the purchase as I am sort of an exhibitionist.



We bought a Lush 3, which is a vibrator, and Gemini nipple clamps. Both were used on an earlier car ride and work well, but it took a while for the vibrator to give me an orgasm so I was a little disappointed with it.

Sunday night, we went to a late afternoon hockey game, and when it was over, we decided to go out to dinner since we hadn't eaten since lunch.

When we got to the car after the game, my sub showed me that he had brought the Lush and said it might be fun to use at the restaurant. Soooo, as soon as we got into the restaurant, I went into the restroom, inserted it, and turned it on.

I walked back to the table with a grin on my face and sat next to my sub, and he started it up, which made me jump a little and the grin went to an open mouth "ohhh". The waiter came to the table for our drink order, and the vibe was on the whole time we were ordering drinks. Fortunately, my sub couldn't turn it up or down at that time because he would have to use his phone, but as soon as the waiter left, he started fiddling with it. Up and down, waves, constant high, etc. I found that it works much better when you squim on a hard seat that has no padding.

He kept it on a constant high for a while, and of course, I had an orgasm. I turned my face into his arm so no one would notice. He was having a lot of fun with it, and it didn't take long for me to come once more. At this point I found that sitting on the corner of the seat really pushed the Lush into the right area. Our food arrived, and I told my sub to turn it off while I was eating as I didn't want to orgasm while eating. LOL

I finished eating much quicker than my sub did, and without me noticing, he started it up again, full force. I about jumped out of my seat! I came again. This one was much harder than the first two. I was still recovering from the orgasm when he changed the pattern again, and I came again about 3 minutes later. My sub had such a proud look on his face after my last orgasm as he turned off the vibe. We finished our drinks and paid the bill, and he turned it back on as we were walking out of the restaurant. That was a trip, walking and feeling it vibrate.

He kept playing with the speed and wave patterns while driving to keep me on the edge. But with the softer seats, I was able to hold back any orgasm and told my sub that my next orgasms would be with his tongue and not the vibe. He was a little disappointed, but once we got into bed, he went right to work and gave me two more hard orgasms. In the morning he gave me two more when we woke up.

All in all, it was a very nice experience, and one we will repeat in the very near future. I'm a very spoiled Mistress.
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Opening Day Chastity
Pubblicato:1 Aprile 2024 6:35 am
Ultimo aggiornamento:1 Aprile 2024 10:34 pm
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As words are still being removed from the posts, this will repeat as the first comment.

I was away for the last week of March, and of course I left my sub locked in his chastity cage. Since I was gone, there was no reason for it to come off. He reminded me that he was going to Opening Day and he's always been allowed to take it off since the restrooms are always packed and even more so the first game of the year. I originally told him he could and then put it back on when he got home.

But over the course of the week I thought about it more and the night before told him no, I wanted it left on as it's been on since the 1st and see no reason why it needs to come off this month. He argued that I told him he could take it off earlier and my reply was that's the nice part of being in charge; I can change my mind.

I also told him I wanted pictures before to prove that it was on for the game. And as I had memorized the number on the lock before I left, I wanted pics of the lock number with a date stamp afterward.



He delivered beautifully, with pictures before in the car, while in the stadium restroom and finally when he got home. For him doing a good job, he was rewarded when I got home by rimming me and playing with my clit until I orgasmed. Unfortunately, this month my orgasm total was significantly down compared to the previous month. We'll have to work on this in April.
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Birthday Update
Pubblicato:26 Marzo 2024 7:27 am
Ultimo aggiornamento:9 Aprile 2024 9:15 am
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As posts are still losing words, this will repeat as the first comment.

It's been a while since a post, so we will have a few updates in this one. We just celebrated my subs' birthday this past weekend, and with it came some cool milestones.

The real milestone for his birthday is that it's been two years since his last real blow job. He was told back then that it would be a very long, long time before he got another one, if ever. I have gone down on him with the cage on, but he can't feel anything, it's just a tease to remind him of what he's not getting. Also, in two days it will be eighteen months since his last orgasm and being inside me. The best part of that is that he barely got inside me before cumming so he really didn't get to enjoy it. Of course, this doesn't count anal orgasms, as he has had a couple of those the past year or so. And I think they get more intense the longer he goes without a real orgasm.

Another milestone is that it's been eleven months since his cock was last touched, by anyone other than himself while cleaning or switching cages. Of course, he hasn't been allowed to take it off that many times this year so far, so even his touches have been very limited. In fact, this session the cage has been on since March 1st and probably not coming off again until at least mid-April. The last time the cage was off, I had him tied down in bed and was playing with his nipples to see how hard he could get. His cock has gotten shorter but the other thing was when he got hard his cock bent upwards. Looking into it bending found it's not a bad thing. This is a picture while he was still semi-erect.



It wasn't mentioned in the last post, but I did start teasing his nippples again in early February. I missed tormenting them, so I started playing with them again. He's been getting a good dose of fingers and clamps on them.

I verbally tease him quite often that I usually have more orgasms in a single day than he has had in the last few years combined. In fact, one of the last posts mentioned that I was on track to have over a hundred orgams in the month. I'm happy to say that I actually had 119 in February. It is such a strong feeling of power and control to keep him in orgasm denial while he still has to service me with his mouth, hands and strap-on. The strap-on is the most effective as he has to go through the motions of fucking, but getting no satisfaction from it as he usually has numbing cream on his cock, while I'm orgasming over and over again.

I've told him that as long as I have his tongue, hands and the strap-on, I see no reason to have to use his cock to ever cum again. And I think he is just fine with that, as long as he gets teased and played with regularly. If I do want a real cock I always have the option to cuckold him with others. Not the scenario for everyone, but it works for us.
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500 Days without an orgasm
Pubblicato:12 Febbraio 2024 7:09 am
Ultimo aggiornamento:14 Aprile 2024 3:01 pm
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Words are still being deleted so this will be repeated as the first comment

This week, we celebrated a huge milestone.
500 days orgasm free for my sub. Not the first time he has gone this long and probably not the last. It's hard to believe it's been that long, but I have no intention of breaking it now, and after all, I'm still having as many as I want.

This past week alone, he has gone down on me every single day, with me averaging 4 to 6 orgasms each time. If I hadn't been away early in the month, it would have been the whole month so far, but I didn't get home until the 3rd. But he can keep going for the rest of the month. I have not hit 100 orgams in a month lately, so maybe this month?

He has also used the strap on dildo on me a couple of times, and I really teased him by going down on the dildo and telling him "there, you got a blow job". 😀

I have been tying him most nights and even got to use a paddle on him twice this week, which was very exciting. We are going to try to go to a hotel next month, so we can play for hours so have to work on his endurance. Maybe he might get his nipples tormented as well by then, but they are still off-limts for now. I can't wait as it's been a long time since a hotel play session.
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2024 Update - 78 days locked
Pubblicato:9 Febbraio 2024 10:03 am
Ultimo aggiornamento:16 Febbraio 2024 1:27 pm
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As words are still be removed by the system, this will repeat as the first comment.

It's been a while since the last update. Vanilla life got in the way, and we haven't been able to do much for a couple of weeks and I was gone for over a week.

The cage remained on for 78 straight days before it came off. This was by far the longest he remained caged without a device being removed for a cleaning or whatnot and the same numbered plastic lock was used the entire time. This batch is much more durable. The other previous time was 48 days. He had a doctors appointment that required it to be off, so I let him keep it off after the visit but there was still no touching of his cock. After it being locked up for so long it was very weird seeing him without the cage. His cock was also noticeably smaller and thinner.

As I was gone for a good portion of the time that the cage was off, he was on the honor system. As we have used it so much in the past, I didn't have any worries that he wouldn't be a good boy. Before I left, I did make sure that he went down on me and used his fingers A LOT, so I was fully satisfied before leaving.

On the night of January 31st, he put the cage back on so the count could start at the beginning of the month. He also used the black Mini-me as he knows I prefer it so much. Unfortunately, he won't be able to keep it on as long as the last session, but it will still be a few weeks at least.

One other thing that he will be missing is having his nipples played with by me. I decided that starting January 1st, those would be off limits for the foreseeable future as he gets so turned on by having them played with via my hands, mouth or clamps. I thought it would be a nice evil thing to do and while I'll miss playing with them he will miss it a lot more since his cock is still not being touched either and not having that outlet either. Once again he has no idea how long it will be before I start playing with them again. I did see some nipple shields that can be left on for a number of days using adhesive so I can make it really rough on him if I decide to.
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Airport Adventures
Pubblicato:15 Gennaio 2024 9:30 am
Ultimo aggiornamento:30 Gennaio 2024 5:07 pm
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As words are still being deleted from the main post, this will repeat as the first comment.

We went on a trip on New Years Eve and our New Year started with a kinky, possible exhibitionist start. A few days before we left, I told my sub he could take off his chastity device for the airport security, but he would be putting it back on before we boarded the plane. However, after thinking about it for a couple of days, and since we have TSA Pre-Check, I changed my mind and told him that morning he would be wearing it through security. He argued that he would need it off, but I won.

He had no problems whatsoever getting through security as it was the old fashioned walk through detectors (he wears a plastic device with a plastic numbered lock so no worries of metal detectors) and not the scanner type. I told him it won't be removed at least until we are home from the trip, which wasn't until the 7th. He was at 57 days with it on at the time of the trip, the longest he has ever had it on without removing, and the reason I wanted to keep him locked. I'm not sure when we will be able to go this long again, so I really wanted to keep it going. In addition to being caged, he hadn't orgasmed at all in 2023, and I have only touched his cock once for about 3 seconds the entire year.

Our return flight turned out to be a little more hectic as our flight was canceled in the morning due to the panel come off a plane a couple of days before. So we were scambling to try and book another flight and get home that day. As we weren't sure we would get the TSA Precheck, he suggested he take the cage off. I just looked at him and said that it would be the only thing that stayed the same. When we got to the airport, he was very relieved that our tickets had TSA Precheck and saw that a couple of the lines had the old metal detectors, so he made sure we were in one of those lines. But as luck would have it for him, wouldn't you know it as we were going through the metal detector, he was randomly chosen to go through the new full-body scanner as well. But he made it through with no problems, although he was sweating bullets, LOL. Of course, I had walked through before him and was laughing at him from the end of the counter,

And of course, now that we know he can go through with no problems, I won't have to let him take it off for the next trip.

I am looking forward to a great 2024 with him caged the majority of the time and denied the entire time. I can't take the credit for this quote as I got it from another site, but I really like it; "one year more, for '24"!
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2023 Results and 2024 Goals
Pubblicato:2 Gennaio 2024 6:48 am
Ultimo aggiornamento:30 Gennaio 2024 5:06 pm
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As words are still be deleted this post will repeat as the first comment.

Happy 2024! 2023 seemed to have just flown by whichnis surprising as my subwas home a lot more and everyone said it would make things go slow, wrong. LOL. Our Femdom marriage enters roughly our 32nd year. This year the milestones going into the new year are:

His last orgasm: 461 days

Last time he was allowed to go inside me: 461 days

Chastity with very short breaks: 359 days - one of the highlights of last year is he slept in chastity every night which he has never been able to do before.

Current continuously locked period: 58 days

Goals for 2024

One of my main goals for the new year is to do a lot more cuckolding, at least once per month, but prefer twice a month. Use the theater method to have the possibility of multiple guys in one session.

Continue the constant chastity regiment

Get together with our femdom couple friends and meet and play at least once every two months

Go to a munch or class at least once every three months.

Go to a dungeon or hotel at least once every two months for BDSM play

Of course, this is all while navigating through our vanilla life, which has had some major changes this past year and keeping everything separate is always a major trick as most of you already know.
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Final Chastity and Denial Update For 2023
Pubblicato:27 Dicembre 2023 7:01 am
Ultimo aggiornamento:30 Gennaio 2024 5:05 pm
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Christmas is the season for giving and opening gifts. However, for my sub, I won't be in the giving mood of opening small packages this season. LOL. With the year coming to an end, here's a quick recap on our chastity and denial play. My sub retired at the end of last year, so reasons for him not to be able to wear his cages due to work purposes went away. As a result, he has been in chastity the majority of every month. It varied each month how long the cage was on due to physical sports activities, but for the most part, he was caged and only out a matter of a few hours per week, if that. The coolest part was that he wore a cage every night to bed. Even on the nights he was allowed to have it off while we were out, it went back on before going to sleep.

Christmas Eve was the 50th straight day that he had been locked in his cage, and I didn't see any reason to let him out. This is the longest he has been in a cage without being allowed to take it off, and I'm enjoying it very much. When it does come off, which he has no idea of when that will be, he has no idea what I actually have planned. We have a flight coming up on New Years Eve so he feels that he should be let out for that. Hmmm.

There are a few things that I've teased him about the past few weeks about the cage being on, so he's very curious to see what is decided and what really will happen. Will I make him unlock, clean throughly, and then put it right back on with no help from me? Or when it comes off will I actually help and play with him? This past year I have only touched his cock once after he showered and before locking up again, and that was for only about three seconds, and lightly at that. That touch was over 8 months ago and he was so disappointed when I made him lock back up, especially since I tease him about stroking other guys cocks that I cuck him with all the time. In the videos, I always try and get me stroking the others I record. 😈

This is about as much as his cock has gotten touched in the past 8 months. LOL



It has been almost 15 months since his last orgasm, and although I told him he won't be cumming before the end of the year, I haven't given him any time frame for when he will be able to cum again. I have been trying to tease him more often, so he doesn't get too bored, lol. And of course, I have been having him give me multiple orgasms most days, either with his mouth and fingers or a strap on dildo.

During the 50 days he had to listen as I fucked other guys, or the treat when he got to watch at the theater. I love to tease him about how much bigger they are than him, and that's why I let them fuck me. To further the tease, I like us to watch the videos of me with the other guys, and especially going down on them or playing with their cocks since that is something I havent done for him in a very long time.

I'm really looking forward to 2024, and all the things we will do, or not do to him, and leaving him locked for who knows how much longer. He certainly doesn't, lol!

Hope everyone had a wonderful and kinky Christmas and has a great New Year!
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Cuckold Play - Theatre Style
Pubblicato:24 Dicembre 2023 12:12 pm
Ultimo aggiornamento:30 Gennaio 2024 5:04 pm
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This post will repeat in the first comment since the system is still cutting off words.

Always seems like the last 2 months of the year is so busy that posts are further apart. There will be 2 this week as there was double the fun this past week.

The other night, we went down to San Diego for a sporting event. We left early as I wanted to go to an adult book store first. We have gone to this bookstore a number of times in the past, and the last time even went into the theater portion to see what was going on. However, we only stayed for about 5 minutes as it wasn't very crowded, and as I found out later, I wasn't properly dressed for theater play. LOL. So we always said we would go back to check the theater out and see how it goes.

This time I was better prepared and wearing a very short Denim mini skirt and t-shirt, with nothing underneath. It was very exciting to ask to be let in the theater, knowing the girls behind the counter knew exactly what I was going to do. We went into the first room but it had only one guy in it so we went to the next room where there were four or five guys watching the videos, each room has two screens. We sat in the front row, and I was looking at the sex going on the screens and trying to let my eyes adjust to the room. My sub knew I was nervous, so he leaned over and started kissing me on the cheek and then started fingering me. I immediately spread my legs wide to give him better access. It was so exciting doing this in public, I came right away.

The other guys all seemed to lock on me once we entered the theater and even more so as they watched what we were doing. The guy sitting a few seats from me had his cock out when we sat and was playing with himself while watching both the screen and me. Another guy, who had been in the back, went over to the very front corner of the theater in the dark and just watched me while playing with himself. There was another guy who came in and sat behind us, and you could tell he was playing with himself very vigorously as he was making a lot of noise, and when he came, he left quickly.

My sub kept fingering me all through this, and I came three more times. I was still horny and wanted to be fucked so I leaned over and asked the guy that was sitting next to me if he wanted to do something. He said yes but didnt have a condom so I passed. Too bad as he did have a nice sized cock.

We got up and went to the other room to see if anything changed there and it was now empty. As I was very horny I leaned over a chair while my sub stood behind me and used three fingers inside me, since he was locked in his chastity cage, to give me 2 more orgasms. While we were playing 3 guys came in and watched, but all stood away while playing with themselves. Once I came a third time with his fingers and the guys seemed to only want to play with themselves, we decided to head out.

As we were walking out the hallway a new guy came in just as we were getting ready to leave and after noticing we passed by to leave came back into the hall and said, "Don't go yet, I just got here and ready to go!" I asked if he had a condom, and he said no, but give him 2 minutes to go into the store and buy one real quick.



While waiting for him to come back, we went back into the theater and I sat on a chair and started playing with myself, giving a little show to the guys still in the room. The guy came back showing the condom and immediately took his pants off and sat on the chair next to me. I played with his cock and told him he had a pretty big cock and his reply was that its only about half erect at that time. I laughed and told him his soft state was still bigger than my sub and why he doesn't get to fuck me very often. He just laughed at that comment. Once he was nice and hard, I put the condom on him and straddled myself on his cock. He was very big, and it felt really good. I had to be careful how much I lowered myself on him as he was very long. It was very cool to look over and see my sub watching and recording but not able to do anything to give himself any relief. LOL After a couple of orgasms I hopped off and bent over the back of the chair in front of us and he entered me from behind where I was able to take him with less issues. It felt great and I came a few more times before he finally came and fell back into the chair. I fixed my clothes and told him "thank you very much" and we headed out to eat dinner before the game.



It turned out to be a great experience, and looking forward to the next sporting event so we can head back to the theater before or after, or maybe even both.
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