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slavesteve0 64M
31 posts
8/21/2017 7:52 pm

i was left tied up, naked, and spread-eagled at a hotel and the Mistress left. i was there for hours. She must have made arrangements with two of the maids to come in to release me. They came into the room took pictures and released me and watched me dress.


BigGA83 59M

8/21/2017 8:32 pm

wait to see if he gets back up


ropekink61 62M

8/22/2017 12:08 am

Get free and help.


steelcager 61M
1996 posts
8/22/2017 12:44 am

I agree with most, try to free yourself, or chew through the gag and yell for help.

Funny story...I heard a story once about a man and wife, she was tied to the bed naked, he was wearing nothing but a cape...he climbs onto a dresser...jumps off trying to reach the bed...knocks himself out cold on the ceiling fan and falls to the floor. She screamed for help and the neighbor heard the screams and came to the rescue. Talk about embarrassing...that must have circulated the neighborhood fast


Raven_GB 63M
854 posts
8/22/2017 2:20 am

Insist on a comprehensive medical before play?


AC_Wright 58F
323 posts
8/22/2017 3:26 am

There's a reason S. King wrote a story about it (wasn't that Gerold's Game?): it's a nightmare scenario.

It's one of the bigger sexual nightmare scenarios out there and for it to be what it is, it puts the answer to your question in the question itself. What can you do? That's simple: nothing.

If you're in bondage that you can get out of, then there's no problem, you'll be phoning 911 any minute now, but for a lot of people, that really isn't realistic. For many practitioners, bondage that you can get out of isn't bondage and if you're actually tied to the bed with any competence, you're going to stay tied to it no matter what and fate will do with him—and you—exactly what it wants to.

I suppose the thing that makes it even worse is how private sex is—the social need to hide it. The music turned up loud to drown out the sounds of moans and the sound of the creaking bed.

That's in urban apartment situations—I can only imagine that things would be even worse (as in "much worse") if you're in a situation where the nearest help is out of earshot.

So, final answer: "Try not to think about it"

Schrille Schlampen aller Länder, vereinigt euch! Ihr habt nichts zu verlieren als euren Kontakt mit Versagern!


mstraesop53 70M  
1814 posts
8/22/2017 4:17 am

I try to live by the Rockefeller Principle "Don't do anything you wouldn't be caught dead doing, or have to explain to the paramedics". It was named after Gov/VP Nelson Rockefeller, who died in his mistress's apartment.

I agree with Stead2011. I have velcro restaints that I use with new partners.

I know a collard sub whose Dom announced he was going try something new at the next play session. She called me and asked me to be her safe call.


likesmatureones 55M

8/22/2017 4:21 am

you get in your truck and run stephen king off some snow packed road...you then tie him up in a bed as you nurse him back to health...

You demand that he write a proper ending to that fucking story and tell you how how to get out of a situation where he is...well incapacitated in a bed and can't get help...


Silver_core 57M  
301 posts
8/22/2017 4:31 am

I had a situation where I stumbled going downstairs to fetch something, and yes there was someone tied naked to the bed above.
Since then I have always tried to ensure that there is either a way out (probably not an easy one but achievable in an emergency) or a phone that is reachable. I normally try to make sure that the phone option is there.


DancingDom 74M
22476 posts
8/22/2017 1:32 pm

I suppose one should insist on a release that you can use yourself. Or have one fo the life alert tings when you play for extreme emergencies.

They have yet to invent the dead mans' switch on dominants/tops.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


Doc_Sonar 66M
24588 posts
8/24/2017 6:23 pm

I like having another , a Human Observer there if consensually ok...(orrr barring that,) a Human Hearing Monitor in the next room.

Maybe a back-up, a safe call at a prearranged time would work better for most, yeah? No answer, they come running.
The Top might be dead, but you'll get out.

It all seems so horrible....

BD~
P
xoz

PS

I thought about voice-activated go ogle to call 911, but you're gagged...and your pussy's showing. Don't worry, embarrassment fades in time.

Doc_Sonar

I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar


Breathe Deeply~
Peace


Doc_Sonar 66M
24588 posts
8/24/2017 6:26 pm

    Quoting  :

Mm.

Yes, molly. I remember your account from long ago. I hate thatthat happened.

Continued Blessings to you.

(Warm hugs)

RTYOs
BD~
P

Doc_Sonar

I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar


Breathe Deeply~
Peace


joseph19563 68M
197 posts
9/13/2018 9:19 pm

It is something to think about. Before I got hooked up with a nearby dungeon I worried about my self bondage and used a lot of ice locks that would free me with time. One time they took several more hours to melt than I had planned, I waited, and waited, and got worried and waited.


joseph19563 68M
197 posts
10/24/2018 3:07 pm

I have a friend I use as a safety, if I don't check in by set times she knows where I am. I bailed her out of trouble once and hope she never has to do the same for me. I do a lot of self bondage and my ice lock once took way too long to thaw, leaving me hanging for a long time. Test and double test.



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