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likesmatureones 55M
0 posts
7/24/2017 4:19 am
the 40 + crowd or what am I chopped liver?


I wanted to blog about this for sometime now.
But it is probably the same reason you don't read me blogging about having some night's fun with some red head and a bottle of jack..
I just haven't been getting any and in one hell of a slump. I just think since I turned 40 I sorta fell off the cliff. I've turned into chopped liver it seems

( and FYI yep there are stories of me/some strange redhead and jack in my past)

I'd tell such stories but don't want to become the old guy at the bar that is reliving his life through tired assed old stories of his youth.

I am hardly brad pitt..I'm hardly don juan...hell I'm not even saying I'm Johny Depp...but to quote sally fields " people seemed to REALLY like me in the bedroom..
( and OMG guys you have to be 40 yourself to even get that reference).

Women complain all the time about the husband/bf or whomever leaving them for the younger woman... they will claim men are nothing but pigs etc etc etc

But have you ever considered it from their POV...( I'm not saying there is anything wrong with older women/I find them very attractive).
BUT after 40 there is alot of shit that goes on in a man's life one has to consider ( not making excuses for men to be asshats here).

The average american male is probably approaching 40...probably is married/divorced and married again.. so there goes his disposable income..lol. He probably is overweight/has some health issues/has a "dad bod" and more than likely has lost his hair or it is thinning pretty bad. ( which makes a man feel like shit)
Chances are he hates his job and is stuck somewhere on the corporate ladder. At 30 ish his testosterone is in decline.. just as a woman's hormones are kicking it into high gear..

It's pretty hard to feel "sexy" at this point.
. it is just easier to accept the role of " dude your a DAD/drink yet another beer/don't worry about your outward appearance/yell at your at the baseball game and live vicariously through them. ( yep this is why you see so many over weight ex wanna bee baseball ball dads screaming at their 9 yr old 's lil league games)
This is why alot of 40 plus yr old dudes look like they shop at walmart exclusively...you just stop caring.

I honestly believe this is the time the wife/gf needs to step in and help a man out/get him out of that dad mod/out of that dad bod/ get him out of that baseball jersey and flip flops for christ's sake ( for nothing says "giving up" worse than a grown ass man in flip flogs)

So at 40 it feels literally like a guy is going down the hill..I'm 48 and it feels like I've become austin powers and have lost my "mojo" baby....the phone stopped ringing off the hook..

WOW I guess you have to be over 30yr old to even get that reference.. the younger generation is saying "phone off a hook???"

I wrote this blog because I see alot of other people out there having a similar problem..everyone ( including women) want that younger/faster/richer model..
It's hard not to just give up and say fuck it

likesmatureones 55M

7/24/2017 4:39 am


Dashmaux 49M
101 posts
7/24/2017 6:51 am

I so agree with this.. It was odd, like you said you hit 40 and seem to go on the invisible list.


likesmatureones 55M

7/24/2017 7:44 am

I only bring this up because I see this male pattern of behavior at work. Etc both guys got married/ divorced/ married/ turned40/ gained weight/ lost hair etcp



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