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Switch4MrRight1 57F
0 posts
3/17/2018 6:29 pm
How far will you go for “the one”?

Seems like so many cool people are some distance away, how far would you travel to meet someone?
An hour or less from my house
A half day drive
Day trip
1-2 day drive to another state
Fly to another state


SwitchnymphoSz 52M/55F
8 posts
3/23/2018 12:02 pm

I used to be a firm believer in a hour or less only but with all the fakes, flakes, no shows and just finding a person I could really connect with mentally and physically I had to re think things lol.

I travel about 2 hours every weekend to meet my honey for our ongoing weekend marathon of twisted debauchery. Its not the easiest thing to find someone compatible and if you get lucky enough to get with someone that does it for you you have to do what you can to make it happen.


2112arashikami 53M
1 post
3/23/2018 7:12 am

I have flown halfway around the world to meet someone, so a short hop on a plane is no issue...the only issue nowadays is dealing with airport security


livcat1000 34F
71 posts
3/22/2018 1:42 am

Surely this depends on the person and the amount of time you have free. I'd travel a distance and have done in the past, but right now life and work is too busy.


yermaineman 65M
383 posts
3/21/2018 1:20 pm

For "the one",... as far as it takes
I have done all on your list for wonderful friends, fuck buddies and lovers at different times,... so I didn't cast a vote
For "the one",... yup...


pincer1960 63M

3/20/2018 4:17 pm

For the right lady it would be a good day trip....


Themachman11 61M

3/20/2018 2:52 pm

round half the world


timesdwell 27M

3/19/2018 7:57 am

depends on the person


diavoloslave 62M
202 posts
3/19/2018 5:42 am

am single self-employed and made sure i can up a leave at anytime so if she was the one and there was a real connection sure i have no problem jump on plane to go or move closer to her.....somethings in life are just worth the risk.


Raven_GB 63M
854 posts
3/19/2018 1:16 am

I am plotting a world hedonism tour when my youngest goes to Uni. The stop-overs will be carfully chosen, of course.


HW13KineticBlue 55M

3/18/2018 8:36 pm

i daresay it's about all been said at this juncture.
-Russ


MissLoveParty1 42F  
66 posts
3/18/2018 7:42 pm

I have exchanged pics and emails with many HOT people on this site. Most of them live too far for an ongoing relationship unless they visit me. I just met a guy who lives in my city, so hopefully that will work out!


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
3/18/2018 9:12 am

I would say i will do all the above...

But, reality is something different... having a cat, maybe two new jobs..
it will be longdistance for now...

i wont mind travel to an other part of this planet, if there is something growing,, development between the two of us..


Switch4MrRight1 replies on 3/18/2018 9:19 am:
I like the idea of travel to another part of the planet, but as you say, there’s this thing called reality...

Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7019 posts
3/17/2018 8:28 pm

I've done most of the above. I recently flew to Japan to see someone I wasn't even sure I would find.

In the final analysis, I've learned that only an hour or so is realistic. Otherwise, I lose interest. I need the reassurance and stimulation of constant physical intimacy.


GymRat62 62F
545 posts
3/17/2018 7:25 pm

Over 500 miles. Flying, 15 hour drives, waiting months. No regrets. Nothing can compate.


Missbaf1 40F

3/17/2018 6:58 pm

I'd like to say I would do the more extreme things... however right at this point in my life, that wouldn't be practical. I work a full time job, plus going to school, and I have several beasties at home that require my attention. A relationship requiring significant travel just isn't in the cards for me at this point in my life. An hour or less is my answer.


drmgirl622 68F  
25880 posts
3/17/2018 6:44 pm

I would think nothing of getting on a plane to meet that special one......those butterflies riding along with me.


DancingDom 74M
22475 posts
3/17/2018 6:39 pm

That is a tough one. I have flown cross country. Driven more than day. Not not so much inclined to drive more than a couple of hours. Would rather fly or take a buss even. Sitting on my butt and having to pay attention to the road tires me out. Another way, woudl be fr me to give her a ticket if it was long distance and get her a hotel room, until she felt comfortable visiting my home.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"



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