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Lotusflower1 57F
302 posts
2/26/2018 8:28 am
Classic example on Alt.....


So....stayed away from here for a day for a mixture of reasons....but this was one example of how life on Alt can be most days.....

Dom sends message :
Hi..You are beautiful and intriguing...I am looking for a submissive to train...but long term...sick of time wasters and dishonest scammers on here...Reading your profile i am guessing you have been messed around on here too..Would you be interested in spending time with me PS Thankyou for serving our Queen and Country..I really admire you.

My reply :
Hi...Sorry to hear you've had some bad experiences on here...not sure how you came to your conclusion that i have been messed around too...I haven't had anything too bad happen on here..sometimes things get misconstrued...misinterpreted...misunderstood..but such is the nature of the beast when it comes to online comms....I live in Wales..You London..I am looking for a LTR relationship and have way too much self respect....and self dignity to merely be someone's play thing or fuck buddy...I want more and deserve more...and won't settle for anything else.

Dom's reply :
You are right..you shouldn't sell yourself short and you DO deserve to be more than someone's play thing...at this point i would like to be totally honest with you...I am married...She works abroad a lot...she isn't into bdsm..which is why i am looking for a sub to train...I hope this doesn't put you off.

(I thought i had already made it more than clear that i had no interest whatsoever in being what this man was looking for...but hey hum...let's get the full convo out in the open)

My reply :
For me..there is only one thing WORSE than being some Dom's fuck buddy...and THAT is to be a married Dom's play thing..it has been a cardinal rule in my life to NEVER betray my own species and that rule will never change...I pride myself on my old fashioned morals and values...so i think you should look for someone who is happy to be what you want and need right now.

Dom's reply :
You may be a beautiful looking woman but you live in the end arse of Wales..you have ptsd...and it sounds to me like you would be nothing than a total f***ing pain in the arse...I should have known you would be trouble and i think you're going to need a lot of luck finding anyone who would put up with your ptsd and how far away you live from everyone and everything...it felt like you were genuine and real..but you are like the other time wasters and liars on here.

My reply :
You are pathetic and hilarious...I am genuine AND real...but more importantly i am single...so available when the right person comes along....I didn't lie...YOU DID..you are a married man living a lie..i am living NO lie...to insult me using the ptsd is unforgivable and fucking cruel...my therapy is almost over and i help other veterans on a daily basis online...passing on the skills and tools i have to control it and now i dictate how my life is lived to it rather than vice versa...so i am close to the exit part of the tunnel rather than only just entering it...If this is your first taste of rejection..then may i suggest you really get used to it...because you are a nasty piece of work...and i wouldn't wish you on my worst enemy...In this whole scenario i did nothing wrong...you asked me to be something i will not be and the only way you could deal with that *thanks but no thanks* was to attack me on such a personal level it was disturbing...and VILE...and if i had ANY way of making sure that you came with a government health warning...to spare others from your hideous and cruel behavior i would...so would you do me the honor of fucking off out of my day and NEVER ever speak to me again or you will feel wrath like you would never have seen the likes of before...attack me as a person is something i can handle as i have passed harder stools than you are pal...but attack anything associated with me having been a Soldier again... GOD fucking help you....but he won't....because he loves selfless brave people..and HATES cheating and mean liars !!!!

Blog Lotusflower1

The very REAL Geeijane so f**k off Demi


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
2/26/2018 10:18 am

Such a fine example of how a so called very polite, giving compliments away like candy.... lying man can become some real nasty piece of work.In the end he shows his real nature!
I have had many of such reactions- cant take a NO for an answer and getting real abuse!! hatefull.

you did an excelent job there!!


Lotusflower1 replies on 2/26/2018 11:35 am:
The irony of it ALL was him calling me a fake...a liar...and full of bullshit after HE declared he was married...what a frigging cheek x

rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
2/26/2018 10:21 am

buddyfcuk;
really? women "become" lesbian? because of the usual brain dead behavior of man?
You did not paid much attention, i geus, at biology classes.?


MissLadywood 51F
6195 posts
2/26/2018 12:13 pm

" i have passed harder stools than you are pal" Bloody brilliant.

What a cretinous dickhead !
Like Rebel said, hang in there, lots of good people around too

Life So Short, The Craft So Long To Learn


Lotusflower1 replies on 2/26/2018 12:35 pm:
Yes that was a lovely little GEM wasn't it MissLadywood ...being an ex squaddie you pick up little one liners which really aren't very lady like...Mum was here last week and i was trying to put a curtain pole up so she was passing the necessary bits to me whilst i was on a ladder...and something just wasn't working and she got all judgy and annoying when i blurted out *MUM..I can only piss with the cock i've been given FFS* In hindsight...rather than watch the colour drain from her face and her stood there looking totally disgusted..i could have said *Mum i don't seem to have the correct drill bit that's needed* But something much less appealing just FELL out of my mouth instead .... x

brandygirasol 54T
9365 posts
2/26/2018 3:14 pm

BRAVO ... BTW Ms Lotus I've noted and agree with your quite interesting and spot on AWESOME commentary about my beloved hero President Trump ... The Only One Of Two World Leaders the REAL Bad Guys REALLY Fear!!!


Lotusflower1 replies on 2/26/2018 4:50 pm:
Brandygirlasol...You are now blessed to have a leader who commands respect...demands for America and everyone in it....He has had the balls to stand up to China...something most countries wouldn't dare do..but this is where his business experience kicks in as an asset...he is used to negotiating with the most ruthless...and can't be bought by ANY fucker...Political correctness doesn't factor when it comes to the safety of the US and everyone in it..he has achieved SO much already..and i don't think anyone can even fathom how this new President had a *to do list* that was miles long as well as having to right the wrongs of his incompetent predecessors...Slowly but surely everyone...including self absorbed delusional celebs...are disembarking the *Trump Hate Bus* because he is proving his doubters and non supporters wrong each and every day...Trump gets the blame for everything...someone's washing machine stops working in Alaska and Trump will somehow be the one at fault...The fat pie-eating leggo headed LOON in North Korea had the audacity to threaten the most powerful man in the number one superpower country in the world...and TRUMP was already being deemed as the one who was about to start World War 3....random non knowledgable people just believe the shit in the tabloids...and i spent the best part of a week reassuring everyone who came to me with genuine concerns that the end of the world was imminent...but i make it my business to KNOW who is who and what their combat and weaponry capabilites are..so before Jong Un so much as lit a fire cracker i told everyone that Buzz Lightyear from Toy Story had more capability to destroy any part of the US than Jong Un..Trump made a statement...knowing China ultimately rule North Korea..so he gave them a clear and concise message to take care of him or HE would which would not bode well for China...Fat Boy launched his 3 missiles..(be mindful that he can only afford to buy second hand weapons in Asian ebay and his Navy are a complete joke as their submarines are not capable of submerging so Trump must have been shaking in his boots lol)....As i had predicted to ALL who were concerned...Missile number ONE launched...and lost the will to live 155 miles later and just fell to the ground....Missile number TWO was fired up..and blew up where it stood...Missile number THREE just couldn't be arsed to even spark up..Trump knew he was no threat but could not be seen as the President of the US and NOT issue warnings of consequences for Jong Un's threats..He is THERE to make sure EVERY Country in the World fears America once more..It's HOW it is and how it SHOULD be..He has already brought Isis to their knees by using his selective unpredictable label..Putin has the same one..Isis thrived on their unpredictability...noone ever knew where or when they would hit next..but now they have TWO World leaders who they can't predict..How hard would these 2 ballsy leaders hit them back..Trump has given them a taste of their OWN medicine by launching a huge attack on Isis members in their homes in Iraq...It wasn't bigged up in the press...but unlike Bush Jnr who should be up on war charges alongside Blair for the farce of a war in Iraq and Afghan...Saddam had nothing to do with Al qaeda so they hit the wrong places and the wrong man...for oil and self gain..the only people who paid the price for that were selfless brave warriors who do what they are trained to do...follow orders..so those 2 are responsible and should be held accountable for the death toll of troops in that conflict...If i had a month to live i would shoot the two bastards myself for the loss of so many of my brothers and sisters in arms. Trump has the battle of all battles ahead of him now..and Putin is on board..but this war is literally a war between Good and Evil..The New World Order..full of the elite..the catholic church...the people who have been ruling and calling the shots cunningly for way too long..in Trump's own words * In this battle..Either God wins..or I die*...and all he has asked from us is to keep the faith...and pray in our masses...Trump and Putins main aim...as well as bring the catholic church to task...is to dis-arm IRAN...as inevitably they already knw that it will be THEM who start WW3..and the people who gave them enough millions to ensure they have the nuclear capability to be a REAL motherfucker of a threat to mankind...The Clinton Foundation..YES a former Prrsident of the USA and his first lady (well she never was his first choice,,,but it was her official title )...so again if i had a month to live those 2 would also be on my *to do* list but not as their plaything )...Its all very insane and there is a shit storm ahead i pray is delayed enough for my sons and their future children to be not affected...But if Trump and Putin manage to take Iran out..as a huge threat..which is a mammoth task...then to me they will be GODS..but they are going up against the biggest and most poweful individuals on the planet..and every day i wake up the first thing i do is say a silent prayer that both Trump and Putin are safe and unharmed...because the NWO know they have been identified and TWO world leaders want and will try to render them powerless...so will do anything to make these 2 awesome individuals disappear...whether it be via *tragic accidents* or blatant assassinations...If i wasn't tied into and committed to ptsd therapy right now..i would be offering to be an additional security op to one of them..i would do it for no wage whatsoever...Because i know this is the war of all wars..and there are only TWO who are brave enough to start it...I want to be there when they FINISH IT...not for my sake...for my sons' sakes and their futures..I need to know that they have no suffering or jeopardy to their freedom ahead...I would sacrifice and die to ensure that for them..and unfortunately we seem to have produced a generation of total lazy arses who can't stand up without a slurp of an energy drink in a can So if we don't do something rather than them...they are basically fucked ........ Thankyou for your comment gawjus lady...I know i write epic long winded comments lol...but i feel SO passionate about most things the words just FLOW out of me xxx

Lotusflower1 replies on 2/26/2018 5:04 pm:
Oh and both sons now do a zip closed mouth gesture and say *NO NO NO* before walking off as i repeat the SAME thing i say ALL of the time when it comes to these bloody energy drinks in a can..which is bull sperm...*Every single day in Army training...we would not be allowed to have more than 3 hours sleep..run at least 10 miles a day in rain or snow..in wet heavy combats...big wet heavy army boots..with weighted backpacks just to add to the torture...we had to SUMMON up the much needed and necessary ENERGY to pass each physical endurance test..It wasn't found in a tin can..or ANY other vessel..it's within you..you find it and rustle it up...not glug it out of a tin container..it's not something you can see OR bloody drink...it's INSIDE YOU ffs...find it..introduce yourself to it..make friends with it..be good to it and it will return the favor when you NEED it's help...* and realise that i had been talking to myself in an empty room for the majority of me sharing my *pearls of wisdom*...they were back on their X Boxes drinking cans of energy drink like it was going out of fashion .... xxx

Lotusflower1 replies on 2/26/2018 6:21 pm:
Best part of all is that the smug indifferent lefties are..ummmm...a bit put out...why when they are usually rich twunts who's lives are unaffected by whatever happens and whoever is in power..is beyond me...they are always indifferent...and have complete tunnel vision..and incapable of hearing anything BUT what they want to hear...which isn't much (everyone with me on where i am going here...they make noises for the sake of noise..they have nothing to complain about...they are so indifferent it's unnerving..almost like they are androids rather than human beings )....So the big question for me is what is the point of them...what do they bring to the table apart from pretentious arrogant nothingness...I would suggest to my father who is a doctor of science..to invent a *rightie serum* for the lefties...but would you *adam and eve* it...HE is a rich indifferent pretentious tunnel visioned *i am always right so don't bother trying to argue that i am wrong* leftie TOO..so totally pointless...like pretty much everything that comes out of his mouth is....*Houston...We have a problem* !!!

DancingDom 74M
22475 posts
2/26/2018 3:34 pm

Well the guy proved early on he was not only dumb but also a dick wad player. My suggesting for this type of guy, is they do not even require or deserve a reply.

I may speak only for myself, but I am sure there are fellows who would be very interested in you and do not see ptsd as any too problematic.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


Lotusflower1 replies on 2/26/2018 3:46 pm:
I hear ya DD....But couldn't possibly resist...and the no retaliation makes me feel like i have given the big guy time to have a word with himself....and wise the fuck UP

Lotusflower1 replies on 2/26/2018 5:15 pm:
My ptsd is now managable..I may have a little panic attack in a crowded unfamiliar city..but people with NO ptsd can have that happen to them...if you were to spend a couple of hours in my company you would be totally unaware that i even have it....I have spent a long time getting to know it..understanding it..once your fear of it is eliminated then you have taken it's power away from it..so i am kicking it's arse and helping others by passing my little tips onto them..the coping skills and tools needed to show it who's boss...this guy was just really going for the one and only thing he knew i was suffering from...but i probably cope with life with more determination and balls than HE does...So i am well...I am coping...I am starting to live again rather than merely existing...and my once fierce and fearless side makes an appearance whenever i need her to..reminding me she is still there and will always be a huge part of the person that i am

Lotusflower1 57F
442 posts
2/26/2018 6:33 pm

I love all of the contributions made on this post by so many individuals...makes me smile inside and out...so thank you all...you are awesome Alt buddies Mwah X

The very REAL Geeijane so f**k off Demi


brandygirasol 54T
9365 posts
2/27/2018 5:07 am

Ms Lotus I Absolutely LOVE your passion and warrior spirit!!! You express yourself so very well-far better than i am able to- with depth and understanding of this perilous world. With your writing skills IF you are not a professional its a SHAME ... Thanks for your friend invite which I eagerly accepted ... Actually Girl we are kindred spirits and in another time and place we could easily have been Comrades-In-Arms LITERALLY ... Perhaps we see the world similarly because of my secret past I rarely mention around here Once upon a time I was a hard charging lean and mean Marine Corps Infantry Squad Leader ... Now all of that is locked away in the closet in favor of my civilian life and my preferred sexual personna and secret identity as... BATGURL ... However in the deep recesses of my mind i'm always aware there is NO EXPIRATION DATE on the sworn oath I once took to defend my country- and I would not have it any other way My Soul Sister!!!


Lotusflower1 replies on 2/27/2018 6:04 am:
OMG RARELY am i shocked and pleasantly surprised on here...but WOW...I am so impressed it's unreal....and i am so grateful and appreciative that you chose to mention THAT fact about you to me before anyone else...I am in AWE gawjus girl as we all know the Marines Corps are part of the ELITE in any of the Forces...I saw so many try to leave a regiment to put themselves through the Marines training..knowing they are the best of the best....but weeks later they were BACK..failed to make the cut...I admired THOSE people for having the balls to even attempt it...You are SO right about the unspoken loyalty and oath that never leaves us when we leave the forces...Things are pretty precarious here in the Uk right now with many feeling we have been totally deceived by our so called spineless leaders...it is more than clear where their loyalties lie...and people here..especially ex veterans are still mortified that only months before we had 3 quick succession attacks in the Uk...2 in London where we have an Islamic mayor (which Trump has warned our government about)..and one in Manchester where young youths went to a music concert featuring Arianna Grande (she is a yank..pretty...but i have no idea who she is or have ever heard any of her songs)...And islamic guy got in there with weaponry which resulted in 22 deaths...OUR leaders decided only months before to allow 400 isis trained Jihads to walk amongst us...KNOWING who and what they were...and when they were challenged angrily about it AFTER the 3 attacks here..and asked WHERE in the Uk were these 400 walking ticking bombs...on live tv the Islamic Mayor of London said in a flippant manner *Oh come on now...how on earth are we supposed to know where they all are all of the time * ....i screamed at the TV *Well we wouldn't need to fucking KNOW or worry where they all are if they weren't HERE you retarded fucktard !!!!!* Seriously Brandy..you couldn't MAKE this shit UP if you tried...I could keep typing for another hour effortlessly lol...but Mum is on her way down to spend some time with me as i have ptsd therapy tomorrow..But i will be on here later to pick up where i left off....Happy you are now somewhere i can see you and hear what you have to say...and HUGE respect from me for your Service to your Country OOHRAH and Mwah from your sister in arms Heidi-Lou Laters hunni x

brandygirasol 54T
9365 posts
2/27/2018 6:23 am

Oh yes I have soooooooo much sympathy for you and all my SANE British cousins across the pond who have to put up with STUPID ASS political leaders working against the best interests of your country- and we have plenty of those IDIOTS over here doing the same thing, too!!! ... Please say hello to your mother for me and I wish you all the best with your continuing treatment My Soul Sister!!! KISSES


Lotusflower1 replies on 2/28/2018 12:55 pm:
I did mention you to my mother..but had to tell a little white lie and said i was just on a *normal* dating site Alt would finish her off to be honest lol....She told my 2 aunties in their 90s that i was online dating and they got themselves all worked up saying...get this...*OMG you have to tell her to stay off them...it's only a matter of time before an online predator sees her and starts to groom her* ...(they've heard the lingo *predators* and *grooming* on repeats of *The Bill*)..then others in the room said to them *You don't need to worry about Heidi-Lou...she was in the Army...she could kick ANY predator's ARSE*....and they nodded and muttered to each other *Yeah if anyone can handle them SHE can so we should stop worrying*...not at ANY point in this fucked up convo did ANYONE say i was 41 years too pissing OLD for ANY predator to be grooming me online...my family are so bloody naive lol x

MissLadywood 51F
6195 posts
2/27/2018 8:49 am

Couple of my brothers are ex squaddies and i used to use their one liners at school.
That was many moons ago so keep them coming. You can blurt them out on here instead of your Mum heehee although i'm sure she understands.
And please, call me Woody (it's easier to type)

Life So Short, The Craft So Long To Learn


Lotusflower1 replies on 2/28/2018 12:46 pm:
I will Woody...and thank you...mum will be relieved that someone else gets to hear my digraceful one liners...she was SO hoping for a lady....but she got ME instead lol x

Gentlemancad 60M

2/27/2018 2:49 pm

This sort of approach explains a lot. I have had a growing feeling for some time that genuine ladies on here are inundated with approaches like this. It would be very easy for the genuine ladies to think the worst of any genuine chaps on here. We aren't all like that but how could a woman filter them out? Answer : he filtered himself out. Be on your guard but don't throw the babies out with the bath water.

And that PTSD jibe is particularly low. I have worked with Help for Heroes and on projects putting disabled access into military establishments. I know I am preaching to the converted here but PTSD is nothing to be ashamed of and your success in dealing with it does you great credit..

I might blog about the approaches from scammers I get but I don't think there's anything novel about my experiences. Like you, I spotted them fairly easily. Almost pathetically easily but in no way do I wish to lay down a challenge to them to get by my ability to recognise a fake.

I am sure you have "passed harder stools" than this bloke but you did find him with "his cock in the custard".



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