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Snowflake__72 51F
0 posts
10/18/2017 4:12 am
Is it wrong


How come I feel like it is wrong to sleep with other people, while in a relationship, even if both parties are in it together? I want to share and have some fun, but in the back of my mind it seems wrong. I don't know if it is because I was raised by conservative grandparents, raised Catholic, or just had it pounded into my brain that it is bad, or past bad experiences from my first marriage (I.e. he cheated on me and made me feel like fucking shit for it). I cannot understand how people can be so free with sex when I just cannot do it. How do I get past all the bullshit? How do I have an uninhibited life that I want without all of the guilt?

JohnnyLightning 65M  
9548 posts
10/18/2017 9:46 am

Guilt can be a useless emotion that puts all kinds of constraints upon us. There is honesty, and cash register honesty. I was raised Catholic and realize that there are so many double standards. There is free will and God's will. You need to find the balance in your life where it's not at a Tipping Point. There are many things you can do without hurting others. There are other things that's nobody else's business except your own.

Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.



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