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Downtown_Girl 63F
17 posts
6/26/2017 4:29 pm
Why are you on here?


i was asked that AGAIN today. You see i have a Master and some seem to think that means i shouldn’t be on ALT. i dont hide the fact that i am owned...i’m very upfront about it. i love my Master and am NOT looking for a replacement. So why am i here? i read His blogs. i personally think this is important. It helps me understand Him and be a better submissive for Him. Plus i enjoy chatting with like minded people who appreciate who i am and respect the fact that i have a Master.
So...why do they care? i guess there will always be jerks. Those who only care about sex and not the lifestyle. Those of us in the lifestyle need communication to help us learn and understand who we are and the world around us. So i guess i’m just going to block the jerks and love the lifestylers.

desiresu69 65M

6/26/2017 5:53 pm

Truer words were never spoken. I totally agree with you. This is a venue for true lifestylers to gather and communicate ideas, desires and even whats happening in their lives. Who to better understand and even offer advise then the like minded lifestyler. I respect your words and I respect your Master along with His exceptional slave. KUDOS.


msfunfor 63M
10611 posts
6/26/2017 6:26 pm

hello ,
i don't think you need to justify your profile here .
if your master is ok with it then you are fine !

enjoy !

be good
M

.


Softlysexy 58F

6/26/2017 6:57 pm

Gotta love that block button!!!!

Let yourself be silently drawn by the strange pull of what you really love. It will not lead you astray.
Rumi


marshamay 35F
5934 posts
6/26/2017 7:54 pm

When i get asked that i just tell em , everybody's gotta be somewhere . That's all they need to understand.


Chigirl84 43F

6/26/2017 8:30 pm

great question. been asked that question a lot of time..i think it is none of anybody's business to ask that question, but then lot of ppl here dont seem to understand that...

@marshamay: luved your answer


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
6/26/2017 11:03 pm

They almost always ask me, what are you looking for? i think thats rather rude, but since most men think you can get sex for free here, i understand.

my answer is; this is for having some decent chat, dont you think? The majority dont like that answer, that says enough!


joyaandkenny 45M/47F  
19 posts
6/26/2017 11:18 pm

I wonder the same about a lot of people on this site. But won't waste my breath asking them...

That said, we all have our reasons, and one of them might be there's not a lot of decent sites out there for our lifestyle. And it's hard enough to find TRUEly likeminded people.

My wife and I aren't looking for anyone to hook up either. We're quite happy together. But facebook is just not the place to be open about our lifestyle... -_- So here we are... In a place where everyone is open about their lifestyle, but sadly half of them are fake...


Downtown_Girl 63F

6/27/2017 5:52 am

i understand being asked what i am looking for. It's when the fact that i am looking just to chat is met questioning my right to even be here. Oh and don't get me started on "Doms" who know that i am taken and still insist that i should engage with online play with them just because of who they are. They totally disrespect my Master and myself. i must say though that i have met many many more people who respect who and am and why i am here. To those people i say thank you.


Hardware_Guy 54M
31 posts
7/2/2017 12:10 pm

There are so many fake Doms and Dommes that think that they label themselves as such that they can treat you like garbage. But then you meet a few real awesome people to chat with and it makes up for it all. I love meeting and chatting with new people, and I'll chat about ANYTHING, gardening, to motorcycles, remodeling a room, and hell even sex once in a while. lol. Take care and wish you much luck in the future. And if you ever find yourself bored and just want to chat sometime, hit me up.


ShellnMatt 71M/62F  
42 posts
7/15/2017 6:48 am

So if you are here to read your masters blog and to blog and engage in some conversation, that's a good answer. It's not an offensive question. Most people are not here. Those who are, each have a reason for being here. It seems a good way to get to know someone or start a conversation. It seems neither inappropriate nor offensive.



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