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Communication doesn’t always have to be verbal Communication doesn’t always have to be verbal There are several things I have picked up in my research. There are truths and concepts that are undeniably the main one is our lifestyle is full of protocols and rituals most by our own making. The other is communication is key as in all aspects of life, but In BDSM lifestyle why not combine the two. We already do in some aspects such as if our sub needs a spanking they can bring an implement and present it to you. There are other forms, for instance, I have a system with my Bella where she has 3 different collars at home. If she is in need of a Daddy Dom she brings the pink collar and presents it to me if I agree I place it on her and pull her into my lap. If she needs her Dom she brings the brown collar again if I agree I place it on her and she kneels at my feet. Then there are the days she is in need of something more she will bring the black collar I will put it on her and she is to strip and get in the corner till I am ready to deal with her. All of these can be overridden by me. This is just a way for us to communicate without speaking. There are a lot of other ways. I once knew a switch that was primarily a Dom but if he had a really bad day he had a ring he would put on before walking in and his sub knew to remove her collar and take control. The constant in all the successful couples are always the same communication. It can be verbal ( porch time, meta, speak freely or pillow talk) whatever or however you call it communication is the answer. In my field of expertise we have what’s called Speak up, Listen up where I teach people not only to speak up when something is wrong but also how to listen up it saves lives. Remember these are people we are dealing with things we do as Dom or sub effects lives. We are all human. Yall stay safe. raspydom~  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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Awesome idea! "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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